I'm just a failure
I'm new to 7 cups. I'm going through depression. I'm 31 years old female but I haven't achieved anything in my life. I have no friends. No job. I'm just a failure.
Everyone is getting married. Everyone is getting successful in their life. Except me. I'm ashamed of myself. I feel guilty for not fighting for myself. I wonder if it's too late. I'm jealous of everyone who has it all. My mother lies to people about me. She tells them I'm doing WFH.
But in reality, I'm just hiding myself from the whole world. I'm obese too. One more reason to feel self hatred and shame. This is the lowest phase of my life. I don't want anyone to see me like this. The worst part? This is happening since last 4 years. I'm stuck here. Since forever.
Nothing is ever too late. One's stages in life are also going to be different to everyone. Life has blessings, so will sufferings. Everyone's got to fall and succeed in some period of life.
Many people are also going through failures, depression, drugs, or illnesses. No one is perfect.
Some people are just more fortune than others.
And just someone perspective of you is negative, doesn't mean other think of you that way.
Humans are imperfect, but we are resilient beings. We survive famine, natural disasters, wars, and many more. There are many examples of men and women who were in the lowest part of their life, but they pushed through it.
I don't know who you are or what you are going through. I wish I could talk to you more.
But, keep pushing through in life. Maybe talk to someone. Stay strong, stay hopeful because more will come.
Please don't think lowly of yourself. You are more capable than you think. You're beautiful and strong for speaking about this. U^ｪ^U💗
It's seems my story and I'm 38 😔 hugs, you're not alone.
@sensibleEyes1111
I've a book recommendation for you.
On Becoming a Person: A Therapist's View of Psychotherapy
It's an amazing book that describes how we can use the tools of psychotherapists on ourselves