Looking for friends
Not sure where to start. I am looking for hopefully long time friends on here. I'm 35. Disabled so I have a hard time doing things. I also suffer from depression.
I also get attached easily and hurt easily which I'm working on.
When I'm not as depressed I like playing video games, drawing, watching tv. I do like going out, just prefer to go with friends.
As a friend I always try to be there.
I love animals, especially cats and foster them.
Right now I'm grieving my cat Hopper, and I feel so alone. I also realized I love hugs from people.
I've always been socially awkward, so I'm hoping to improve and even make friends near me down the line. (Not sure where to start near me if you know good places please let me know)
So if you're looking for a friend to chat with let's start. As I said I'm socially awkward so please let me know if I overshare or undershare.
Thank you for your time and hope to make some good friends!
Hi! I’ll be your friend
@Hiimoriah Hi, nice to meet you!
Have you made any Friends? I am just looking for some one to talk to who would listen without judgement, though what I want to share will not fell like a big issue at all
@helpfulChestnut80 I've made some friends but am always open for more. I'd love to chat with you!
Hey i don't know how to enable notifications here. Yes am here to talk. I feel like sometimes we just need just to listen and not to react
@helpfulChestnut80 @helpfulChestnut80 You know I'm not to sure how to enable notifications either. I agree its nice to have people to just talk to without bad reactions. So feel free to chat too as I listen to others too!
I don't know where to start, i have a good job and stable family life but it's a void and it's been like that for years. People will its the 40's or pre-menopause but I know it's not that. I operate like a machine and make sure I take care of everyone and everything around me but when I look back there isn't anything that I stood up and did for myself. What is that making feel lonley
@helpfulChestnut80 I'm so sorry you feel that way. Do you get to hang out with friends? Do stuff with your family that you enjoy? It sucks they are just blaming age. Have you talk to a doctor? Sometimes they are helpful. It sounds like you are depressed, I sometimes feel that way but have gotten a little better. And I hear you about feeling lonely. I'm here for you and try to check messages everyday so I'll always get back to you. Hopefully I can help you feel less lonely.
I do try spend time with my family but it's like my body is present but not heart . I don't have close friends, not sure why. Haven't been able to get close to anyone because i feel like no one would be accept the real me. I spoke to a physcologist any year back and she just gave a general feedback and few vitamin tablets in prescription. So i couldn't understand if I wasnt able to express myself.
So i dont know I am going through years ... Without feeling anything
@ShellyZz
HHi! You have a friend here and a listening ear! ❤️🍀💪🏻 I'm here for you no matter what you need.
@Silvina88 Thank you! Same with me if you need an ear to listen to you I am here!
@ShellyZz
GRAMOThank you!! I'm here for whatever you need ❤️🍀 Don't hesitate to talk to me!
