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User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz October 27th, 2025

Not sure where to start.  I am looking for hopefully long time friends on here.  I'm 35.  Disabled so I have a hard time doing things.  I also suffer from depression.  

I also get attached easily and hurt easily which I'm working on.  

When I'm not as depressed I like playing video games, drawing, watching tv. I do like going out, just prefer to go with friends.

As a friend I always try to be there.

I love animals, especially cats and foster them.

Right now I'm grieving my cat Hopper,  and I feel so alone.  I also realized I love hugs from people.  

I've always been socially awkward, so I'm hoping to improve and even make friends near me down the line. (Not sure where to start near me if you know good places please let me know)

So if you're looking for a friend to chat with let's start.  As I said I'm socially awkward so please let me know if I overshare or undershare.

Thank you for your time and hope to make some good friends!

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User Profile: sociableDrum9946
sociableDrum9946 January 25th

Hey! How can I chat with you?

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP January 25th

@sociableDrum9946 As far as I know we can message replies here, for one on one, one of us has to be a listener.  Hope your day is going well!

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User Profile: caringhugss
caringhugss January 25th

Hi

Thank you for sharing so honestly — that takes real courage. I’m really sorry about Hopper 💔 losing a companion like that can leave such a quiet, heavy space, and it makes sense that you’re feeling alone right now.

You sound like a deeply caring person — fostering cats, trying to always be there as a friend, and still working on yourself even when things feel hard. That matters. A lot.

It’s okay to get attached. It just means you love deeply, and with the right people, that can be a beautiful thing. I’m also a bit socially awkward, so you’re in good company here 😊 No pressure, no expectations — just simple, kind conversation at a pace that feels safe.

If you ever feel like chatting about games, drawing, cats, or even nothing at all, I’m here. Sending you a warm virtual hug 🤍

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP January 25th

@caringhugss Thank you.  I was always told its a flaw to care to much.  So your post means a lot to me.  I'd love to chat with you!  I'm hoping to start drawing again as it helps my anxiety.  Right now I just play relaxing games but hoping to get into my other favorites soon.  Thank you so much for the virtual hug!  

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User Profile: naturesbeauty1234
naturesbeauty1234 January 25th

Hi hun I'd love to chat with you anytime... I'm stef or Stevie Sticks I hope you doing good.. hope to talk soon 😊❤️

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP January 25th

@naturesbeauty1234 Looking forward to chatting!

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User Profile: angelgirl87
angelgirl87 January 25th

Hi

Im looking for friends, too. :) I just lost a guinea pig and a sweet little mouse a few months ago so i know how you feel. Is there a way to msg back and forth on here?

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP January 25th

@angelgirl87 So sorry for your losses!  I had a mouse when I was a child and loved her so much.  As far as I know we can reply to messages here, to chat one on one, one of us has to be a listener.

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User Profile: mbali2025
mbali2025 January 25th

Hey, I don't have friends at all. So would you like to be my friend.

User Profile: mbali2025
mbali2025 January 25th

Hey, I don't have any friends so would you like to be friends with me?

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP January 25th

@mbali2025  I'd love to!

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User Profile: ambitiousBalsam2960
ambitiousBalsam2960 January 25th

@ShellyZz

Hola 👋 espero estés muy bien 

Sabes también tengo una discapacidad y eso me ha llevado a afrontar duras luchas emocionalmente así que te comprendo pero creo que en esos casos no es bueno sentirse solo, así que si te interesa podríamos hablar y conocernos mejor. Que te parece?

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP January 25th

@ambitiousBalsam2960  I'd love to chat and get to know you.  Hope your day is going well so far

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User Profile: brightWatermelon7203
brightWatermelon7203 January 25th

@ShellyZz Hello Shelly how are you doing today. If you want someone to talk to don't hesitate to share with me.

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ShellyZz OP January 25th

@brightWatermelon7203 I'm doing okay, better today then yesterday.  Would love to chat with you!

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User Profile: brightWatermelon7203
brightWatermelon7203 January 25th

@ShellyZz Hello Shelly how are you doing today. I'm new here and i hope to make some good freinds. So if you wanted someone to talk to i'm here and don't hesitate to share with me.

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ShellyZz OP January 28th

@brightWatermelon7203  I notice it double your post so incase you didn't see my last reply, looking forward to getting to know you!

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User Profile: Helclint
Helclint January 25th

@ShellyZz, Am glad that you have started working on yourself.  kudos for that

User Profile: ShellyZz
ShellyZz OP January 26th

@Helclint Thank you, its slow going but at least it seems to be working. 

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