Looking for friends
Not sure where to start. I am looking for hopefully long time friends on here. I'm 35. Disabled so I have a hard time doing things. I also suffer from depression.
I also get attached easily and hurt easily which I'm working on.
When I'm not as depressed I like playing video games, drawing, watching tv. I do like going out, just prefer to go with friends.
As a friend I always try to be there.
I love animals, especially cats and foster them.
Right now I'm grieving my cat Hopper, and I feel so alone. I also realized I love hugs from people.
I've always been socially awkward, so I'm hoping to improve and even make friends near me down the line. (Not sure where to start near me if you know good places please let me know)
So if you're looking for a friend to chat with let's start. As I said I'm socially awkward so please let me know if I overshare or undershare.
Thank you for your time and hope to make some good friends!
Hi
Thank you for sharing so honestly — that takes real courage. I’m really sorry about Hopper 💔 losing a companion like that can leave such a quiet, heavy space, and it makes sense that you’re feeling alone right now.
You sound like a deeply caring person — fostering cats, trying to always be there as a friend, and still working on yourself even when things feel hard. That matters. A lot.
It’s okay to get attached. It just means you love deeply, and with the right people, that can be a beautiful thing. I’m also a bit socially awkward, so you’re in good company here 😊 No pressure, no expectations — just simple, kind conversation at a pace that feels safe.
If you ever feel like chatting about games, drawing, cats, or even nothing at all, I’m here. Sending you a warm virtual hug 🤍
@caringhugss Thank you. I was always told its a flaw to care to much. So your post means a lot to me. I'd love to chat with you! I'm hoping to start drawing again as it helps my anxiety. Right now I just play relaxing games but hoping to get into my other favorites soon. Thank you so much for the virtual hug!
Hi
Im looking for friends, too. :) I just lost a guinea pig and a sweet little mouse a few months ago so i know how you feel. Is there a way to msg back and forth on here?
Hey, I don't have friends at all. So would you like to be my friend.
@ShellyZz
Hola 👋 espero estés muy bien
Sabes también tengo una discapacidad y eso me ha llevado a afrontar duras luchas emocionalmente así que te comprendo pero creo que en esos casos no es bueno sentirse solo, así que si te interesa podríamos hablar y conocernos mejor. Que te parece?
@ShellyZz Hello Shelly how are you doing today. I'm new here and i hope to make some good freinds. So if you wanted someone to talk to i'm here and don't hesitate to share with me.