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How to put a complaint?
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by sociableDrum9946
Last post
 May 2nd
...See more Why is it not super easy to make aware of malpractice happening at 7 cups? Many men are roaming around as predactors on 7 cups. They screwed up mental health more than they can even help. And it is not even pertaining to one location. I have had a listener from the UK ask for ***. An American say casually that we can hang around nude ( God knows what that means). Now, suddenly, an Indian is like you can call me on a different app. Where the scrutiny? I understand free app and helpful. Fine! But how about creating safety? How many times do I just keep saving myself than getting genuine help? Why is it not simple to raise a complaint? The listener I just spoke about evaporated in thin air. Even your moderator don't have much knowledge of mental health. If a person is in crisis, sometimes, they can guide the listener to ghost the member. I have experienced it first hand. I am thankful to 7 cups but maybe the world will be a better place without such resources. An app which is being used to seek sex.
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Can someone help?
35 & Over Community / by sociableDrum9946
Last post
 February 3rd
...See more Hi I didn't know where to post. I am in complete shut down I feel. I am at home but hiding in my bed. Mum has asked me four times to eat. I am hiding because I feel anytime there will be taunts coming my way. I don't think I want to talk to parents. No one will understand me. I will be given advice. I will be told to set my life right. I am feeling total shut down where anything is not possible maybe. I mean everything is overwhelming. I am waiting for parents to sleep to feel a bit ok. My brother doesn't live with us. He has a wife and two kids. I tried recently in my own ways but I think he doesn't care. I don't think I can take care of my mum or help my parents generally. I am not in a condition. I don't know whom to contact to just give my mum some support. I did message my brother twice in the past week about it. I don't know if he acted on it. I have sent him a message about the tests my mum needs to get. I am thinking maybe staying in some other place will give me some peace of mind. I won't be hiding for my parents to sleep. But not equipped to help myself find a place asap. It's not really easy talking to listeners. How many times will you explain yourself? And there is so much bothersome. Also, everyone doesn't get that the situation might not be grime but it may seem to me.
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How to get over trauma?
Trauma Support / by sociableDrum9946
Last post
 March 1st
...See more Hi, I can't put in words what I go through when I relive trauma. The last relationship has broken me. I don't think recovery is possible from there. Any chance at love seems impossible because I get triggered like crazy. I have no control. I keep repeating words to a new person. Words like are you hating me? Are you angry with me? I am not a bad person. Don't hate me. Ofcourse, anyone will just leave. Who will stay when I get so many fears. How do you deal with trauma trigger? Is there any way to get out of that loop?
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Does anyone feel rejection sensitivity?
ADHD Support / by sociableDrum9946
Last post
 February 2nd
...See more I am crying about what my friend did and said 1 year 4 months back. People can be cruel to people they love. My mistake ofcourse she doesn't love me. I doubt she feels anything positive about me except for being there for her, if she needs. I think I have been hurt worst when I have been made to feel that I am too much. I don't understand ways of the society. It doesn't stop whether work, friendship, love, or family, I have been made to feel I am too much. I think I am so idiotic. I remember every time I have been restricted, dismissed, yelled at. I am so stupid. I remember such minute things. I don't think people ever remember all this. I am remembering I was out with my parents and brother on maybe some festival. I wanted to check out how the restaurant connected their fairy lights. I wanted to switch them on and off. My brother said so much. He was completely angry and irritated. He didn't want me to behave that way. I am way old and somewhere I keep blaming my parents. I mean only in nov 2025 did I start accepting that I have adhd. It's just that I feel if as a child, I was allowed to be however I wanted and was accepted for me then maybe my baseline would be strong. People say now you are an adult. Reparent yourself blah blah. How? When your baseline is not ready to accept you as right or lovable. I feel if I was told that you can be and do whatever you want then maybe I would not be believing anyone coming and saying I am wrong.
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ADHD Support / by sociableDrum9946
Last post
 January 23rd
...See more I feel so lost, confused, irritated, and exhausted. I just don't know what to do. I wish someone just gave me a path to take. My life is awful. I just sleep and eat. What do I do?
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Hate being sick
35 & Over Community / by sociableDrum9946
Last post
 January 19th
...See more I had severe congestion. Doctor gave me 900mg antibiotics daily with anti allergic. Only liquids and spray. I sleep the entire day. I am dizzy. Head hurts when I am awake. Feel so weak. I have my periods too. Barely eat. It's winters and I still feel hot.
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I want a friend
Pen Pals / by sociableDrum9946
Last post
 March 2nd
...See more Hi, Anyone wants to be my friend?
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Anybody has a narsissistic father?
Relationship Stress / by sociableDrum9946
Last post
 January 14th
...See more What are your emotions around it? What happened to your relationship with him? I have the toughest time because I find it hard to break the core belief that you are supposed to be close to your father. Also, that you are supposed to love your father. There are just so many things about him that I can't approve of. I feel my childhood was horrible. It wasn't like that for my brother. My father can go to any extent to win. He just has to prove that he is superior by hurting me especially. I have no one to discuss this with.
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