My heart is broken
Hi, im 38 years old single woman, I was not able to start a relationship in face to face, my whole relationships started online, the first one was very great and i cam through a gaming platform with no intention to fall on love and we had 2 years relationship but I couldn’t take the decision to be with him as he lives abroad and can’t come to my country. After breakup and he got married i was looking for a relationship the same was i had a very bad one with a manipulator and liar after that i stopped this path. Recently, by chance i had a talk to someone online and then we became friends and then a relationship but now he ghosted me for a week and im really feeling bad, I don’t know why this happens to me, why i can’t find love, im i really bad person that dose not deserve love? My heart is really broken
@Rub1986
I am sorry you are going thru that but online is like that for many people not just you. we make friends or connections and then it comes to needing to make a choice of meeting in person if possible etc. there are many many scammers who seems to look for anyone.
Making friends is always a possible that they ghost many reasons sometimes it is hard for some if they develop feelings yet see no real future in it as they want someone they can touch etc. is the last person you met someone you could meet in person. Online is ok but i think it becomes depressing if you cannot be with the person for real.
@rub1986
Hi i am ab,
I have some thoughts to share,
Myheart is also broken, now i connecting the broken parts of my heart and i see i am the connection which is connecting the part of broken heart.
I am only person in my life which doesn't leave me i am with me forever in life.
Do you relate this and What do you experienced in your life ?
God bless you 🙏
@Rub1986
I am beeing
@Rub1986 It’s completely understandable to feel heartbroken right now. Navigating relationships, especially online, can be really tough. You’ve faced some painful experiences, and it’s normal to question yourself after being let down. It’s important to recognize that these situations don’t reflect your worth as a person. Sometimes, people just aren’t ready for a commitment or might not be honest about their feelings. It doesn’t mean you don’t deserve love.
Everyone deserves love
Sometimes people who open up too quickly often get connected with other person too early, i guess there is strong energy between them, i have experienced something similar, yes it is really bad when the other person betrays
@Rub1986. Love the one who loves you.
You can't find love, you fall into.
I have been unloved, ignored and ghosted. But that really doesn't affected me later. Since I've started thinking in reverse, i really got to know about the turns and twist of relationships. It's funny too sometimes, when I think being good is not enough always.
@Rub1986 Hello :-) I understand, from my experience, that dating online is one of not many choices we have nowadays, and there's nothing bad in that. But I do not understand one thing from what you said: Are you not interested in a relationship in a real world, face-to-face, hand-in-hand? Why?
@Rub1986 hey broken heart, try not to feel too bad, because of the shortness of others. to be one of those with fragile heart (Jewel). i'm palino i am not to familiar with this web site, lets see how this goes ,let me make it clear,I have someone but i'm confused just like you........
@Rub1986 I think you don't have to look for love
love comes when you least expect it
you have to be patient
