My heart is broken
Hi, im 38 years old single woman, I was not able to start a relationship in face to face, my whole relationships started online, the first one was very great and i cam through a gaming platform with no intention to fall on love and we had 2 years relationship but I couldn’t take the decision to be with him as he lives abroad and can’t come to my country. After breakup and he got married i was looking for a relationship the same was i had a very bad one with a manipulator and liar after that i stopped this path. Recently, by chance i had a talk to someone online and then we became friends and then a relationship but now he ghosted me for a week and im really feeling bad, I don’t know why this happens to me, why i can’t find love, im i really bad person that dose not deserve love? My heart is really broken
I'm sorry to hear these but you don't have to blame yourself for any of that because there are not your faults. For me it takes risk of developing a relationship online because you can hardly know who you are really talking to it's like everything is unknown except for what he wants you to know or what the side of him he wants to shod you so it's never your fault and please just don't blame yourself. You deserve to be loved that's unquestionable. It may be just you haven't met the right person and I believe you will. I truly understand that you want to develop an intimate relationship or establish connections with others but sometimes I guess we have the wait? Don't worry you're the best and I'm sure you'll meet the oneð¥°ð¥°Wish you the best!!!
Are you still open ?
@Rub1986
Damn, that’s really hard, going through relationship troubles. Sorry to hear that you’ve recently been ghosted too, that sounds really painful. It’s understandable you’re feeling bad right now. It sounds like these online relationship experiences have left you feeling confused and disappointed. I would say this, that it’s important not to loss hope. Everyone deserves to find a happy, healthy, and supportive relationship. Hugs!
i had same situation with a girl but we couldnt marry since she live in another country and we can't be together because of my country laws....
She thought i ghosted her once and left me a message saying that i don't care about her and i was fooling her for months but in reality it was Just because i was in a huge trouble and couldnt even talk to my father and siblings to tell them im ok
She hurt me that day so my only advice is to Just not judge too quickly and try to not say anything that not necessary
And about finding your true love
i hope you Will soon
Hey you've gone through a lot. It's not your fault you know. When such happens it's easy to think and feel like people leave you because there's something wrong with you and that's not always true. More often than not it's a reflection of what's wrong with that person.
I know from personal experience how it hurts, but if you define yourself based on what other people think Nd say bout you or how they treat you then you can't properly define yourself. Without a solid understanding of yourself, who you are and what you are worth then nothing a person can say or do can diminish you.
You're strong, I can tell because you were strong enough to be vulnerable. You deserve an award for that.