38 and feeling lonely
I have been with my girl for 6 years 3 kids and now she told me doesn't love me anymore but we can't afford to be apart and because of the kids I don't want to leave but she goes out every night and I sit here crying all alone with the kids and just wanting her I can't stop thinking of her I don't know what to do help
@Rocket14k2- that is a tough place to be. Living with someone who says they dont love you. Where I live the community offers subsidized counseling. Often people evolve and change, and it may be a phase in her life. Stay strong and know people out there care.
I'm sorry you are going through this, i'm sure it's hard since you are both living together, how about going on a vacation by yourself for like a week and say it's a trip for work so the kids don't get worried+you get some rest and clear your mind and heart
It’s horrible you have to do that. Yes, it might be a phase in her life. Love is about seeing all the phases of a person’s life and still accepting them.. you should take care of yourself.. walk outside more and you might just meet new friends who might make you smile again. Take care and love yourself even if your mind says otherwise
Ask the reason , sit and discuss, work up, make her impress like you do before marriage...all the best.