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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 November 8th, 2022
Hello everyone 😊, I hope you are all doing okay ❤️

There is a lot going on in the world right now. What kind of topics do you believe should be more discussed in the media?



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User Profile: RideaRainbow
RideaRainbow November 8th, 2022

PMT = Positive Mental Thinking

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 8th, 2022

@RideaRainbow

Positive mental thinking would be great and very helpful to improve health with many people!

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User Profile: kala
kala November 8th, 2022

@amiablePeace77


How to help more people who are in need.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 8th, 2022

@kala

Good point, some people might want to help but just don't know how!

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User Profile: calmMango9611
calmMango9611 November 8th, 2022

@amiablePeace77 Respect

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 8th, 2022

@calmMango9611

Respect is so important to help to create a harmonic state of being, respect for others but also for yourself.

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User Profile: calmMango9611
calmMango9611 November 9th, 2022

@amiablePeace77 Your a very wise person.

I love how you answer questions.

You have so much wisdom.

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November 8th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

How seniors and future generations are going to support themselves if Social security is going to run out? The cost of living is rising so high now that many seniors will we be able to maintain a decent and costly living expense. This question seems to get danced around quite a bit but nothing concrete.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 8th, 2022

@scarletPear1945

Social security and cost of living are big concerns! I hope there will be a solution to it.

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User Profile: georgiagalaxy
georgiagalaxy November 8th, 2022

@amiablePeace77 I wish social anxiety was represented in a better way,, or more obscure topics where talked about more often. Also, when explaining rules to someone, I think there could be nicer ways to do that! I experienced something rough this morning, and ... the people texting where unconcerned for my feelings. It's almost like they didn't think about how I felt.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 8th, 2022

@georgiagalaxy

I'm very sorry to hear that those people have not been more considerate, a rough tone can be very hurtful, hugs (if accepted). Social anxiety would surely be helpful to make others understand what those suffering from it go through in life.

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User Profile: georgiagalaxy
georgiagalaxy November 8th, 2022

@amiablePeace77 Aww thank you. Yeah and.... idk it just seems like I'm getting judged by my family a bit. They're only trying to help and they also get easily annoyed when I don't follow what they say. Angry, even. I'm just being my own person and I'm living feeling like I have my life under my control :)

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 9th, 2022

@georgiagalaxy

Sometimes people, even loved ones, just want to do the best not realizing it's not really helpful. I hope they will understand with time that you need to be yourself.

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User Profile: georgiagalaxy
georgiagalaxy November 9th, 2022

@amiablePeace77 Yes. <3 They can be quite helpful at times, and it's okay if they don't word things the way I'd like! I know that's a reality of life! <3

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User Profile: ambitiousprincess02
ambitiousprincess02 November 9th, 2022

Hey I’m ok I’ve been considering moving out of my parents place I’m 20 and am nervous and don’t know where to dtarte

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 12th, 2022

@ambitiousprincess02

Moving out of your parents home and getting your own place is a big step in life and I can see that you're nervous about it, I was too when I left home but gladly all turned out well. One of the most important things to me is that one feels ready to live alone and has enough budget to pay rent, eventually a deposit etc. Here is a link showing some steps about moving out of your parents home https://www.theguarantors.com/blog/9-easy-steps-to-move-out-of-your-parents-house, I hope this helps.

For future reference: Usually a forum thread like this is intended to let members give their answers to the question of the thread. A better place for your question would have been "Challenges we face". If you having questions about posting you're welcome to pm me.

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User Profile: EmbStitcher33
EmbStitcher33 November 9th, 2022

Americans are way too divided... and I see so many lies paraded as truth... how do we establish real truth, not just opinions and stop the spread of fake crap that ads to so much chaos and eventual HURT... all this makes me want to just ISOLATE and hope for a peaceful death... Life on earth these days is not what I grew up in. so... how do we deal with modern chaos.... Delete this is you want to but this is what is in my soul right now....

I am NOT political, but I see an administration that may reduce drastically, or eliminate my ability to afford to LIVE on this Earth.... and in this state. they are making a move to make homelessness a CRIME....

I am f ing scared

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 12th, 2022

@EmbStitcher33

Taking more about divisions and about coming together as one would be a good topic in my view.

I'm really very sorry that you feel scared about what's going on and you're not alone, many people are concerned about what is happening. Nothing is worse than fearing that things are falling apart and your existence is threatened, hugs (if accepted). I hope that coming here will give you some relief and comfort. Venting is a good thing, it helps us to cope. My pms are open for you if you like to share more 💙.

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User Profile: EmbStitcher33
EmbStitcher33 November 20th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

Thank you for your kind words. In a better mood today. I wish congress would talk more about helping the most needy instead of trying to take more away from them. I mean, tax cuts for the rich only help the rich. Cutting fixed incomes only puts more people in the streets or in graves...

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User Profile: secretTriangle7438
secretTriangle7438 November 9th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

Generational trauma. It's an eye opener for many older generations.

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amiablePeace77 OP November 9th, 2022

@secretTriangle7438

Good topic with a great need to be discussed more to raise awareness!

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat November 9th, 2022

What kind of topics do you believe should be more discussed in the media?

Childhood sexual abuse of both boys and girls and the resultant mental health issues



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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 9th, 2022

@WharfRat

It is sad that childhood sexual abuse has been "swept under the carpet" (particularly with boys) for such a long time!

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User Profile: TheJeff
TheJeff November 9th, 2022

How couples adapt to each other during aging and the changes they face. How these changes affect day to day mental state.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP November 9th, 2022

@TheJeff

That is a very interesting topic and affects practically all couples, even if not all in a negative way though. Aging together can have many challenges one never thought about before.

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