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50+ community Check-in April 12-15, 2021

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 April 12th, 2021

A wonderful Monday to everyone. I hope you’re all doing okay laugh

Notice small things wink

Repetitive tasks are on our schedules every day. Our daily routines simply include more little tasks than big things. However, often people focus on the big thing to happen, like for example going on vacation or getting a job. This is of course important and gives people something to look forward to but it is not helpful when all our energy is directed to the big thing to happen. Most of our lives though happen in that intervening time. So when we are too much focussed on something to happen in future we are robbing ourselves of the opportunity to be present and enjoy the now, the small things, the repetitive tasks we have to do on a daily basis.

Today, I like to invite everyone to do one repetitive task very mindfully.

Example: Washing the dishes or cleaning the floor

enlightened Observe the underlying calmness of your strokes when washing the plate or moving the brush.

enlightened Notice the smell of the soap

enlightened Notice the small soap bubble forming

Please come back here and share with us your experience about the task you have chosen and whether you noticed a difference in doing this task now than before?

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User Profile: RideaRainbow
RideaRainbow April 12th, 2021

I have been mindful of soap lather and fragrance ever since the shutdown... Washing hands frequently gives me such pleasure to see so much soapy layer and the heady Arora soothing my senses... Ahhhhaaa makes all the difference. 😊

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 12th, 2021

@RideaRainbow

It's good to be mindful of soap lather and fragrance to avoid that your skin ph-value is unnecessarily destroyed.

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User Profile: barncat
barncat April 12th, 2021

Got out earlier to feed the horses. Noticed how they all stretched their back legs - looked lke they were waking up.

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April 12th, 2021

How wonderful barn at! 💚

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 12th, 2021

@barncat

It's amazing how mindful animals are, like with stretching after waking up to avoid injuries smiley, guess we can learn a lot from them.

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User Profile: Boo7300
Boo7300 April 12th, 2021

Hello all. This is my first post; I just created an account last week. Still trying to learn how 7 Cups works. I am glad I found a 50+ community.

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April 12th, 2021

Welcome Boo! Glad you found us in here.

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User Profile: intuitiveFriend1097
intuitiveFriend1097 April 14th, 2021

Welcome Boo

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April 12th, 2021

This is probably silly, but each time I get to, and use different hand sanitizers, whether at home 🏡, or at a medical appointment, I really take my time, feel how different each one is, feel it going all around and over my hands and wrists, and then notice how they each feel so different when they dry and how long each one takes to dry. Some dry with a more normal feeling and some are more sticky when they dry. As for the smell I don't know as the medication over the years cause me to lose my smell over 15 years ago so I'm not sure about that and maybe y'all might know about all these smells of these things.

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User Profile: Boo7300
Boo7300 April 12th, 2021

@Amelia2324

I don't think it's silly. It's observant.

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User Profile: Larysa
Larysa April 14th, 2021

@amiablePeace77

When I started doing this, the Mindful Washing Up, it was because I realised that I was resenting men. My thoughts were that men never do any of the housework. But one day I saw this mind worm for what it was. It couldn't possibly be true. It was a privilege to have dishes to actually wash. So I didn't have to hunt down banana leaves every day to eat off.

That day, I concentrated on appreciating the feel of the water on my hands, and the froth, how smooth the porcelain was. That these were my mother's dishes from her wedding day. I still had them. They were not all lost or broken. I had trees in the back yard to look at while I washed. I had birds to listen to. Since then, I have an epiphany about life every day while I stand at the sink, and mindfully to the washing up.

Thanks for reading.

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User Profile: intuitiveFriend1097
intuitiveFriend1097 April 14th, 2021

Cool share

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 14th, 2021

@Larysa

You came to a great awareness, it's our choice how we see something, either like an unpleasant chore or like something we are actually grateful for being able to do.

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User Profile: tealPenguin2518
tealPenguin2518 April 14th, 2021

Hi, I am new and just eligible to join the thread! 😬😄

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 15th, 2021

@tealPenguin2518

Hi there, so glad you joined us. So nice to see you in our forum, hope to see your more often here laugh. You can also join our discussions after having received the necessary badges, this is the link to our current schedule

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