50+ community Weekend Check-in Aug. 7-9, 2020
Happy Friday to all of you, how was your week? 
Have you ever had a time in your life when something unexpected happened? Did it change your plans? What did you do? Did someone help you?
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Have you ever had a time in your life when something unexpected happened? Yes
Did it change your plans? Yes
What did you do? I called my sister after 6 years. I accepted her offer to come back into my life and her invitation to move in with her and her husband.
Did someone help you? Yes, my sister and brother in law.
@purpleTree4652 sounds like a life changing event. Way to go!
Have you ever had a time in your life when something unexpected happened?
I believe my whole life is filled with unexpected turns and I don't really have one specific event cuz things never usually go my way anyway.
Did it change your plans?
Of course it changed my plan, usually, the complete opposite happens than what i planned so it pretty much messes me up every time.
What did you do?
i accepted that there is really nothing i can do and just try to well go with the flow and shape my plans as the day passes by.
Did someone help you?
not really. been doing this alone for almost 10 years now and will continue to fight regardless of help.
@potatoxcrispztrish you really are a determined person that does not give up. Good for you!
Have you ever had a time in your life when something unexpected happened? - Yes a few times.
Did it change your plans? - Yes it did
What did you do? - I moved to a new city
Did someone help you? - Yes, My parents
Thank you for the check in!
@Goldcherry2113 thanks for sharing that. Parents can be valuable allies to help us when we are down.
Today I went late to work more than the last days, and I discovered that the supervisors had come to my site and reduced my salary for the absence. It's too hard to bear all this stress just for absence not for the quality of the work.
@DinaElwy
Sorry that you do not get the recognition you deserve, sometimes people get incentives for doing a great job, wish it would be in your case too.
@amiablePeace77 No there are no incentives on my contract, there is just decreasing the salary.
@DinaElwy
It hurts when others do not see how good one does a job but just the time you are there, unless you are paid by hours of course, but good work "should" always be recognized in my opinion.