50+ community Weekend Check-in November 6-8, 2020
Happy Friday everyone, I hope you had an enjoyable week 
Balance is not better
time management,
but better boundary management,
Balance means making choices
and enjoying those choices.
How would you rate your balance in life at the moment, in what areas of your life do you need to get more balance (apart from the current Covid situation)?
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How would you rate your balance in life at the moment, in what areas of your life do you need to get more balance (apart from the current Covid situation)?
I think I couldn't feel balance in all sides of my life because I don't feel safe at my work and in my post studies, and I am all alone and have no relashionships.
@DinaElwy
I'm sorry to hear you feel unsafe at work. Sounds like a tougj situation to be in. I also can understand not being in a relationship, if you want one, can be hard. Maybe that will be something to try to balance next in life. ❤
Hope your weekend will be good,
Sunrise
@amiablePeace77, My balance is pretty much level with the floor. I need balance in the uplifting areas of a life. I need love. I need people to love. I need independence. I need hope. I need open positive spaces and beauty. I need mental positivity returned to me. I need financial assistance. Or I need a way to die so the tragedy of my life can find the balance and peace of death.
@purpleTree4652
Oh,Tree
It makes me feel so sad that you are feeling so down. I know life is really hard and there are many of us that are struggling with not having anyone to support us or love us which makes life feel so empty and worthless. You are here for a reason and you are an important factor in this universe. Life is already short. I am here and I will try to be a very good friend. Whenever you are feeling like you need an ear or someone to just sit with you I can do that no judgements just friends helping each other. You deserve love and to be accepted just as you are my friend.
I hope I am not out of line for saying this but I do mean what I say.
May you have Peace
May you have Happyness
May you find Peace May you have good Health
@scarletPear1945, Thank you and bless you, Pear. I would love to talk with you. You are not out of line. How can we get in touch? Are you a listener?
@purpleTree4652, You can look for BubbleGumPuppy68
Thanks
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@purpleTree4652
Hi there,
it seems like you are struggling a bit in life right now and I am so sorry you feel this way. Balancing things isn't always easy and there are times in life when you feel more or öess balanced. Sometimes starting with baby steps can make a big change.
Hoping you'll feel better real soon❤
//Sunrise
How would you rate your balance in life at the moment, in what areas of your life do you need to get more balance (apart from the current Covid situation)?
I've enver had balance. I've always been alone, and while solitude has its place, I still long for friends and companionship. Sometime let me have somebody I can be with for awhile!
@WharfRat, I can relate to wanting someone to be with.
@WharfRat
So so sorry you feel a bit lonely. Having friends who support you or you enjoy spending time with can be something that helps you find a balance in life for sure. And now with social distancing it's hard to find new friends IRL too.
Hoping for you to find some new friends soon❤
//Sunrise
@amiablePeace77
My Balance sucks, My charkas are so blocked that I am working on myself diligently
@scarletPear1945
Sorry to hear your balance is not good at the moment. Awareness is a good start if you feel the need to work on it. I hope you feel better soon!
//Sunrise
@spectacularSunrise7824
It will get better soon, thanks
I don't know what balance. I never really did. I guess that's something I should work on too.
@Goldcherry2113
Starting to think about it is a good step. Maybe you do have balance already if you haven't thought about it? If not, you can start with smaller things to balance. We can't do it all at once.
Hope you have a nice Sunday,
//Sunrise
@spectacularSunrise7824 what's a good thing to practice on?
Hello. Mmmmm.... balance ...at the moment I am learning to dance to help balance myself physically and emotionally . Irealise I tend to worry or become impatient when things around me or something I am doing takes too long so I guess I am learning focus and patience right now.
@faithlove1111
What a lovely way to find balance in life. Dancing is great for both body and soul. A great combination really to listen to music and move to it too. Sounds like you are on a good path to find balance in life.
//Sunrise
@spectacularSunrise7824 , Thank you for your support
