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Does the weekend fill you with dread or....

User Profile: lucy2
lucy2 August 17th, 2018

Do you always make sure you have time for fun and time to wind down?

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User Profile: Offmytrack
Offmytrack November 28th, 2018

My weekends are my happy time. In general, Saturday has always been laundry, yard work, and free time for myself; Sunday has always been grocery shopping.

Lately, I am spending as much of my weekend with my girl friend as possible. I still have time to do chores on Saturday and shopping on Sunday, but I get a lot of time to just be with my girlfriend, do things with her, make her happy.

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User Profile: lucy2
lucy2 OP November 28th, 2018

Hi @Offmytrack :-)

Sounds like you have a well thought out weekend, enjoy!

Lucy2

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User Profile: peachPlane8134
peachPlane8134 January 23rd, 2019

I think if you are active and have hobbies you will not be scared in front of weekend.

when I just got retired, I did not know what to do with so many free time, I was kind of desperate and felt lack of energy. but now i am going swimming pool and Pilates, meet friends. I start took vitamins for energy and better memory.

here link, maybe it will helps someone as like it helps t to me.

(Edited to remove link by Lucy2)

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User Profile: lucy2
lucy2 OP January 23rd, 2019

Thank you so much for taking the time @peachPlane8134

You're right of course and I like to keep busy, I think maybe I am too busy doing the wrong things and should concentrate on more exercise<3

Lucy2

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User Profile: TreaureSeekers3
TreaureSeekers3 January 24th, 2019

So right. I like the weekends and like to be off but nothing to do gets to me. I need something to keep me occupied . Something small. Hobby is best thing

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User Profile: lucy2
lucy2 OP January 24th, 2019

Hi @TreaureSeekers3

I totally agree with you, idle hands makes me miserable but I'm getting better <3

Lucy2

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User Profile: MaroonRose
MaroonRose January 28th, 2019

It fills me with dread now since Im dealing with a break up after a 15 year relationship

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User Profile: lucy2
lucy2 OP March 7th, 2019

Really sorry to read your post @MaroonRose <3

Having some 'me time' may help, really do hope so.

Lucy2

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User Profile: Offmytrack
Offmytrack September 12th, 2019

Hah, the weekends hold no dread for me. I sort of dread the work week, but I deal with it. Weekends are full of chores and things to do, and that helps my depression.

User Profile: gentleTouch1548
gentleTouch1548 September 14th, 2019

Weekends have no agenda. I enjoy them; boating and a bunch of grand children that teach me something new all the time. Latest lesson, "give them back on Sunday"

User Profile: bubblyPineapple5283
bubblyPineapple5283 September 14th, 2019

Yes the weekend feelse with dread, it is the time when everyone has fun but me...

And the night time...

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User Profile: lucy2
lucy2 OP November 16th, 2019

Sorry to read that @bubblyPineapple5283

I hope you find some comfort here at 7cups <3

Lucy2

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User Profile: limegreenPear2111
limegreenPear2111 September 14th, 2019

The weekend simultaneously fills me with hope and dread. I can't wait to get to it because I typically get to be by myself longer and wind down from the school week, but it fills me with dread because I never feel on top of things and every weekend that passes reminds me of a deadline coming up for school or everything I have to do next week. It's a reprieve from life, but it's way too short and I often feel underlying anxiety while I relax during the weekend.

User Profile: Soppydog
Soppydog November 6th, 2019

I dislike weekends, as it gives me too much time to think! I suffer with social anxiety, and cant go out much, especially on my own where theres crowds. I work 5 days a week, but thankfully im self employed, so im not really mixing with lots of people.im supposed to be going on holiday nxt yr, with my daughter,which im dreading, as havent been on holiday in over 40 yrs, il b out of my comfort zone, but i dont want to let my daughter down. Shes aware what im like, but ive told her im going. I cant sleep wirrying about it, anyone else been in this situation? Im having counselling, but im struggling

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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 November 16th, 2019

@Soppydog Hi, I used to have social anxiety with men. I'm sorry to hear about what you are going thru. I hope that the therapy will be helpful for you.

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User Profile: Offmytrack
Offmytrack March 2nd, 2020

The weekend always fills me with joy. I spend my weekends with my girlfriend, except when I go skiing like next weekend.

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User Profile: lucy2
lucy2 OP March 2nd, 2020

Sounds a great way to spend the weekend @Offmytrack laugh

Have a fabulous time skiing!

Lucy2

User Profile: marinad777
marinad777 May 15th, 2020

Are you, I love the weekend! Since I have to work all week, I look forward to the weekend to rest. I constantly rent a car Evolve , because I still do not have my own, and we go with my family to the country. From the cottage we can go anywhere. This gives me a boost of energy and strength for the next week. I drive a car very well!

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