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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence January 1st, 2021

Welcome to those that joined in January! laugh

Say hello here and get to know others who have joined this month too!

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User Profile: Asher
Asher January 7th, 2021

Welcome to those all this month.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 9th, 2021

@Asherwolfice

Hello Asherwolfice, thanks for joining to welcome the new subscribers!

How are you doing?

cheers!

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User Profile: MidwesternCalmSeeker
MidwesternCalmSeeker January 9th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty

Welcome, everyone! This is a fun forum. Hope you all have a wonderful day.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 9th, 2021

@MidwesternCalmSeeker

Hello there MidwesternCalmSeeker!

Thanks for your post.

Wishing you a relaxing Sunsay ahead!

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 10th, 2021

Welcome, we are glad you joined! laugh

Icebreaker - What is your favorite relaxing activity?

@Mikecdog

@Lokismum

@reachingout2u

@Lesjon

@CodySucksAtGames

@impartialLime1838

@unassumingJet5400

@EmpathicRiver1a

@Acxpert

@raspberryCoconut9837

@migata33

@SunshineDaydream813

@Vintagelung

@courageousMap8135

@optimisticCat4146

@kindheartedDaisy44

@Captainmike

@acapellaqueen

@MommaLovesTheCats

@rhlvrma94

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User Profile: Lesjon
Lesjon January 10th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty I really enjoy a long walk along my local beach with my dog Bilbo a staffy. It's quite invigorating at the moment as we have snow and very low temperatures. It definitely blows the cobwebs away.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 10th, 2021

@Lesjon

Hello there Lesjon!

You have a Staffordshire, lovely!

Sounds good to enjoy walks with him, I bet he likes them too!

I never brought my dog to the beach, just the lake and the mountain but any place is good enough to be together.

I also think it is invigorating and relaxing, well done yes

A special cuddle for Bilbo! heart

Glad you joined our community, welcome again!

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User Profile: owlbutterfly
owlbutterfly January 25th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty

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User Profile: IWuzADuck
IWuzADuck January 11th, 2021

Hello everyone,

I guess I got here via the WeirdDarkness podcast. My memory doesn't always keep up.

I'm 58, married with two adult children, and soon to be a grand father in May.

I've been treated for depression/anxiety for a few years and just this last year was diagnosed with ADHD.

I've been on adderall for about nine months. It really has cleared my head but I'm dealing with the down sides.

Having a somewhat functional brain has caused my OCD to become front and center, where as before it was burried under the mess I was. Also the effect of taking the medication is great, but if I miss it for any reason, it's worse than before I was treated.

Spent all weekend in bed and didn't eat a thing with a bad spiral.

Today is better

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 11th, 2021

@IWuzADuck

Hello there, welcome to you.

Sorry to hear you are facing such difficult moment.

It seems like some days are worst, hope that when you feel bad you can join here to experience some support.

Wish you to find more stability and to start again enjoying things in life, as well as having a well-being improvement.

Take care!

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User Profile: easyDrum1965
easyDrum1965 January 12th, 2021

Hello all,

Just turned 65 this month, and not used to it yet.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 13th, 2021

@easyDrum1965

Hello, welcome!

Happy belated birthday. laugh

How is your week going?

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User Profile: easyDrum1965
easyDrum1965 January 15th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty

Sorry, being new here, I don't know how things work with posts. My week has been filled with ups and downs, and I'm looking for a levelling-off place. Thank you for writing. How is everything with you lately?

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User Profile: kalestuffedlamb63
kalestuffedlamb63 January 13th, 2021

Good Morning :)

I'm new here. I'm still trying to figure out this website. I'm 57 going to be 58 this summer. I am married, I have three "adult" children and six grandchildren. I have a lot of issue with my adult chilren. The problems seem to come in waves and it never seems to be with all of them at the same time :) I have fought depression and anxiety most of my life. I have a lot of issues from my past that I deal with at times and at other times I ignore and other times I deal with and manage.

Anyway, today is a good day and I am working on things and as of right now my relationships with two of my children are good, that's a good day :) I hope to meet you all.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 13th, 2021

@kalestuffedlamb63

Hi, welcome! Glad you joined laugh

It sure is challenging to face difficulties with family members, it can be emotionally draining but it's positive that today it has been a good day, wish you to have more like that, from now on.

Here in 7 cups there is also a community to support people with anxiety, you can give it a look HERE

There are also some mindfulness exercises suggested, see if any of them can be helpful: HERE

You are welcome to share when you think it can make you feel supported, we look forward to hear from you soon!

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User Profile: kalestuffedlamb63
kalestuffedlamb63 January 14th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty Thank you for the welcome :) As far as the family issues, they seem to change daily :) I have to just ride them out. I have found the if the problem last more than 3 days then it's time to worry. Things right now are stable so I will take it.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 14th, 2021

@kalestuffedlamb63

Wonderful, keep on going!

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User Profile: Klevergal
Klevergal January 13th, 2021

Greetings,

I'm a newbie escaping the reality of my crumbling newlywed home life while pressures mount from almost all angles. Spending a lot of time in prayer for solutions to financial and marital hardships.

enlightenedHow do you like to relax? I like to relax with reading.

enlightened What's your favorite scent? I love the scent of cinnamon.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 13th, 2021

@Klevergal

Hello to you, welcome!

Sorry for the difficulties you are facing, life's events can play a negative role.

I like to believe that love itself is really powerful and couples in love are able to survive to dark moments.

Wish you all the best!

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User Profile: Klevergal
Klevergal January 13th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty

Thank you for your response. That's what makes this reality so disappointing, a new or older married couple should be in love and let love conquer all. Unfortunately, that isn't our case as I'm the one [formerly a widow] who was deceived into believing he [twice a widower and now age 73] understood by now what love truly entails. I'm just waiting for the next shoe to drop.

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 14th, 2021

@Klevergal

Sorry to hear, hope you can find here the needed support to cope with things.

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User Profile: Klevergal
Klevergal April 6th, 2021

Thank you! I agree and pray for a happy ending to what I thought was a love story.

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User Profile: naehussle
naehussle January 13th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty how do i report my listener ?

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings January 13th, 2021

@naehussle the best way is to do a review of the chat

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 16th, 2021

Welcome! We are glad to have you in the community!

Icebreaker - What's something funny about your pet? (if you have one)

@frankOrange2380

@Universalsiahxx

@Smokescrunch

@lisamkup

@passionatePerson7313

@JustSad7748

@understandingPeach2258

@frothyMagic6772

@tidyCup1610

@Saturngal726

@lightBlueberry50

@raspberryWriter8060

@Willy7800

@ConnorKenway

@placidAcai2474

@ambitiousBlueberry331

@purplebeach0630

@bunnysomers

User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP January 24th, 2021

Welcome to:

@adoredWatermelon8565
@Robyn27
@aquaSky523
@shotfok
@MsKay123456
@Jane07Grakuprii
@Katbtrying552
@Lucyjanakaga12
@SusanCass
@Susiefloos
@persistentGrapefruit8662
@turquoiseDay3040
@JohnM2021
@Gypsyndn
@Practicalsail3794
@moxx06
@Qwertymnbv
@cosmiccrystals11
@Schobles18
@intellectualCity5118

We are glad to have you joined!

Icebreaker - What was your first thought when you woke up today?

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User Profile: adoredWatermelon8565
adoredWatermelon8565 January 24th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty

User Profile: adoredWatermelon8565
adoredWatermelon8565 January 24th, 2021

@LoveMyRotty my fiirst thought upon waking up this morning was thank goodness the headache is gone!

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings January 26th, 2021

@adoredWatermelon8565 glad you are feeling better!

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User Profile: adoredWatermelon8565
adoredWatermelon8565 January 28th, 2021

@soulsings thank you so much lack of sleep and weather are contributing to these headaches

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings January 29th, 2021

@adoredWatermelon8565 oh no those sound like life is a struggle.

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