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The friend of addiction

User Profile: amicableox0685
amicableox0685 August 19th, 2024

Depression is a friend of addiction. When your tired and weary it tries to lie to you. If you don't feed into it it invites the others for help. Know who you are and why you feel that way. If you are going through something with someone else it's likely they're obstacles in life make them react negatively as well.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou September 2nd, 2024

@amicableox0685

Its such a mix bag, really. :/ 

Sending more power to everyone doing their best to push forward.💛

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User Profile: amicableox0685
amicableox0685 OP September 2nd, 2024

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

I agree, but honestly emotions are part of life. No one is just passive, but also the obstacles we encounter in life gives us resilience, but it's like society has this negative connotation towards emotions, and I think it's all because the world we live in is such business oriented.

It's not like your manager is going to give you a promotion for balling your eyes out over the workload. That's just inappropriate work behavior.

So, you just wait till you go home...with a big tub of ice cream.


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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou September 12th, 2024

@amicableox0685

Oh wow you put it so nicely and I agree, sadly the world doesn't value emotions and emotional expression as much as it should and something else always seems to take up more space in our lives, emotions come "secondary" because one needs more "important" things to live in this "society" as a functional member.

I'm glad we have spaces like 7 cups bridging some of this off-cups-world gap, holding space for emotions and expression, encouraging "talking it out" and support. 

Big yes to that big tub of ice cream though hehe. What's your favorite flavor? I'm always down for some Belgian chocolate!😋

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User Profile: amicableox0685
amicableox0685 OP September 13th, 2024

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

A Moose, Moose tracks or Coffee flavored although I don't consume it anymore. Banana split! Hagen Daz is releasing a blood and flesh flavored ice cream for Halloween, I always wanted to be a zombie. I'm just kidding, about that...hehe.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou September 13th, 2024

@amicableox0685

Lol sounds very interesting. Haven't tried a banana split before. :0 

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User Profile: amicableox0685
amicableox0685 OP September 13th, 2024

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Birthday Cake?

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User Profile: SummerKay2024
SummerKay2024 September 12th, 2024

@amicableox0685

Addiction was my escape to quite down depression anxiety ptsd and grief 😔 it took me rock bottom to learn to search for the root cause of my self destructive behaviors. 

17 months sober from alcohol and drugs now. I still dance with grief ptsd anxiety and depression but do it sober. 

🐡✨️✨️✨️

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User Profile: amicableox0685
amicableox0685 OP September 13th, 2024

@SummerKay2024

God be willing I can find that strength.  

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User Profile: SummerKay2024
SummerKay2024 September 13th, 2024

@amicableox0685

You will rooting for you. Sending you strength 💪✨️✨️

🐡✨️✨️✨️✨️

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User Profile: Lostsoulforever
Lostsoulforever September 22nd, 2024

This hits home

thanks for sharing

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User Profile: amicableox0685
amicableox0685 OP September 25th, 2024

@Lostsoulforever

👌👍🙏

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User Profile: pumkinspice96
pumkinspice96 September 25th, 2024

I get bored and depressed.. I feel like sitting in front of a tv all day gets exhausting but idk how to spend my time differently because I’m broke.. and drinking made boring fun.. but it’s ruined friendships for me.. I try to quit and then weeks pass and I just feel empty and alone and I go back to it

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User Profile: amicableox0685
amicableox0685 OP September 25th, 2024

@pumkinspice96

Gotta get to the root of your addiction and process it. For me it was feeling devalued, but each person is different, and some themes are common amongst all people, which is trauma.


I'd recommend setting some time aside when your healthy and then just sit there and reflect on it.

Some things that I've made a habit are deep breathing, and exercise...

Praying for your well-being


Good luck 🍀 

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User Profile: Ksully123
Ksully123 October 1st, 2024

I love this. Depression is a friend of addiction..well said

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User Profile: amicableox0685
amicableox0685 OP October 4th, 2024

@Ksully123

Anger is it's cocreator and number one supporter.

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