Addicted to porn
Im addicted to porn and masturbating. i cant stop!! there is no way to filter my phone and idk how to talk to anyone about this. I'm.very socially akward and i have trouble talking about serious stuff to other people...help please!!!
Many will say that that kind of stuff is normal and healthy and just a part of life. And that once you accept it then you won't feel so out of control since the more you try to repress it the stronger it gets. Idk.
@Phthalo
very true !! the more you resist , the harder it is. I think moderation is key.
@limeMaple5923 dude I am dealing with the same problem. What I have done is I have blocked some apps on my phone and drastically reduced the use of laptop and phone. I have also tried to stay busy. The more busy one gets the lesser the urges will hit.
@Mrcheeku hi i am also facing same problem of porn and masturbation furthur it leads to depression , i try each of the time and result fail . Now a days m facing an automatic ejaculation of semen at night i font know how it happens its due to fear of something ....... i am also facing inferior complexion .
@Musa008 what u said could perhaps be described as premature ejaculation. It happens when u have been jerkin off daily for a long Period of time. But fret not, there is no need to panic.Try to take baby steps to come out of this addiction. Start with 1,2,3 day streaks. Then u can increase the period. Hopefully the problem u said will cure.If you want for another opinion then u can visit a urologist too.
As far addiction is concerned, it will take some time to come out of it. But if u put some serious efforts for a long period of time then u will make some progress. That is what I am doing too. All the best.
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LimeMaple, I think its natural that you attract to porn activity but the thing is that how long enough is enough. You should consider having regular sex instead watching porn. Yes, it can take toll on your health physically as well as mentally.
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I've been struggling a long time with this problem and the more that I think of quitting it the more I fall deeper into this addiction but still after realizing that this was the truth and there is no way to run for it I gave up I basically become looking into fetish BDSM and even Shemales well hold your thoughts and stick with me for a moment even I when look back at my self and see how much my taste have worsened I ask my self how could I stood so low (Ps I no have problem with trans people and I respect everyone) and here goes the struggle again i basically fall in depression and I become having these thoughts : Do I want to be like this sh*t I'm watching? am I turning gay since I like seeing "a girl" with a male genitals being fuc*ed .these thoughts are making me paranoid at the moment even though I read In some forums that shemale porn is conceived for straight guy but still, I'm afraid that this may affect my social life in the future if it already hasn't I should mention that I'm genuinely not that social I just keep catching up from time to time with my old friends from high school otherwise I'm living the aftermath of a brake up with a girl I knew in the university that I'm attending to I never been so addicted to porn in my life since then idk maybe I'm escaping the heartbreak that I faced or just an old bad habit who grew up so badly suddenly . As you all can see, it's really complicated, I'm lost , i' m drowning helpless...(PS : probably reading this will make make you say what a pervert !! But still, just to clear things up I'm no way near a pervert in the real life I have huge respect for women and I feel at ease talking with girls )
Yes! it's bit difficult to get out the situation specially you ar all alone. It is however not dangerous but can effect in long run. You figured it out once you get married and after 1 or 2 years you find exausted in sex life because you have used your power earlier.
You can't get rid of it but can get escape it from getting it gripping on you once you get alone. Follow these best practices:
1) Never get yourself alone make; be with someone everytime 2) Try to make a casual sexual partner3) If it still not posible then don't do it with you hands take escorts services [edited by MonBon to remove link]. I hope this will help you out getting rid of this issue.
@limeMaple5923 I don't think the problem is porn, more like the lack of something in your life that makes you flee to porn. For example lack of friends, a girlfriend, hobbies you love or general dreams and goals in life. I'd suggest of course to try and cut it down with practical ways like others already suggested, but I'd focus more on what's making you use porn as an escape. If you fix the problem in your life it will be wsy easier to stop being addicted to porn. Good luck :)
It truly is a difficult thing. There is much in what I've read here that I have found accurate in my life. Even if at first I was just experimenting or exploring and found pornography or sexual conversation very exciting and titilating, eventually I turned to it as the answer to everything in my life. Had a good day? Masturbation is a great reward. Had a rough day? Masturbation makes it better.
And yet, the length of feeling better seemed to lessen and lessen, and I was just left with feeling miserable, and lost, and alone, and unworthy of love, and a failure, and weak, and the list goes on and on. And I'd use my drug of choice to make it feel better. And then feel miserable afterwards, because outside of the moment, I still felt lost.
I think this is the right first step. Acknowledge the problem; name it! Then work together with people who care to come back out. You're in the right place.
@bowserforpresident
I love what you said, word by word, I have the exact same problem, I can't find anyone who understands me, but I'm glad I found this forum, I didn't realize it existed !!
my god you too? i was playing call of duty one day and i just felt like it has to be done even tho i wan killing people in the game
it surely is weird anyway googled it and mostly said it is natural and it means you are a teen no longer so DON"T WORRY BE HAPPY.
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@limeMaple5923
You're not alone, I have the same problem.
