Looking for a friend ♡
Hi, everyone! I am a teen who's looking for a friend. Recently I've been struggling to find a single friend because I am always finding out they are toxic or gossiping about everyone. I just wanna know how it feels like to have a friend who is there for you and cares about you).
you're so real for this, I have like 3 friends in my life and it does get lonely but it's so hard to find new friends :(
you're so real for this, I have like 3 friends in my life and it does get lonely but it's so hard to find new friends :(
For me, 3 friends is a lot, but it really depends how they make you feel. For example if this is just one friend, but they care for you and support you, you feel like they are just your person, then it will be enough for you. You can have billion of friends and still feel lonely, so that's why you need to choose your friends wisely, but it does get lonely too when I cut off all the negative friends and now you're left with no one, feeling like all the right people just died and your the only one here
Wanna be friends?
I also feel that way. I've been struggling to make friends due to anxiety and trust issues
i would love too.. i also need a friend 🤍🤍
Hii, you did a really good choice that you stopped being friends with those who don't see your value, because you are valuable, but some people simply don't see it in you. And being okay with that is a hard thing to accept. Right now I only talk to people from time to time, but surprisingly haven't found "my people or person" yet. I am just seeking, seeking and it doesn't get me anywhere, lol.
I so get you...I have been searching for that one best friend who would always be my side for idk how many years now. 4 years ago, I used to live in a colony with a few kids my age...I didnt have any best friend as such but was part of every friend grp. Since I didnt have anyone to back me up, I was more often than not the butt of the joke or just the one everyone would "playfully" gang up on. Then my family shifted to the suburbs so i lost all contact with my colony friends and even my school friends. I changed schools and had to start a new. For the first year i legit didnt make any friends in school. Also my house is pretty much in an isolated area so my only social interaction was family and school. Anyways so in class 11 i made those friends and I honestly thought they were different. But as a few months passed i started to feel the same...this time the problem was that I was a guy and they were girls...in one of my best friend's words "it's obvious they would be closer compared to me cuz they are girls and im not" and that really hurt me especially cuz I had already told them how i felt about being left out and stuff. Also i didnt really have a choice in leaving them cuz tbh they left me. They felt that I was trying to break them apart and blamed it all on me...anyways so yea I know about that bit too...searching for that friend who will always be by my side...I think I have honestly given up hope on that now and yea its pretty hard to accept that. Especially after you have had a taste of what friendship is like its so much worse to go back to being alone.
I feel you... I would be more than happy to have you as a friend, I'm serious about making people feel loved. Nowadays is really hard to find true friends, so here I am if you wanna talk :)
That is so sweet of you) If only this app had private chats, but it seems like it doesn't.
hie.
u okay?
Right now, yes. Thank you so much for asking, and you?)
