I have very weird fears that most people probably don't have......
I have a fear of swimming pool drains, lights, filters, jets, etc.
I have a fear of any shower head I'm not used to.
I have a fear of elevators.
Can anyone explain why I'm so terrified of these things? Does anyone relate?
@Cedarking1
There is no definitive answer as to where fears stem from. Some argue genetics, others life experiences with others stating that both are a factor. I personally have a fear of being late, despite not having experience of suffering negative consequences as a result - it's hard to say where these things stem from!
If you're comfortable doing so, there are treatments that you can explore that may be able to help you out a little.
@Cedarking1
Alex explained it quite well. But I want to add that many fears are fixed with anxious thoughts and also many fears happen because of a bad experience as children (since we don't remember we can't explain why we have it).
I'm afraid of slugs, maggots, and the like, and I know why. omg. big yuck, gotta go.
