Family relationship ruined?
I have a 14 month old daughter and my husband's youngest brother (6 years) has been giving me problems regarding her since she was born. He's possessive of her, constantly getting up in her face, always wanting to try to kiss her, touch her face, hands, or feet, and even putting his fingers in her mouth for no reason. On the flip side he is also jealous of the attention she gets and he acts out when he wants more attention. Baby spent the night at the in-laws the other night and when I went to pick her up yesterday things were typical with the little brother, nothing too out of the norm with him. Except when we were packing up to leave he did something that disturbed me. I handed her off to the other brother (13) so he could get his last hugs in and so I could gather the baby's diaper bag and toys. The little brother for some reason decided to walk up grab her feet, and slowly lick up the full length of them, making eye contact with her for the first foot, and me for the second foot. It freaked me out really bad but I said nothing and baby and I went home. I told my husband about it when I got home and told him how uncomfortable it made me and he took it as me accusing his little brother of being sexual (I never accused anything, it was just extremely weird and uncomfortable) and then called his mother for her side of the story. So now she's freaking out thinking I believe her little boy is a predator. I have a wonderful relationship with my in-laws and am now worried that by my husband jumping the gun calling his mother has ruined one of the few meaningful relationships I have. I don't have a good relationship with my own family and have a difficult time opening up with anyone. His mother is one of the few people I'm comfortable being open around. How can I fix this?
First of all you have every right to be uncomfortable. I know I was just by reading it. I’m sorry you have to go through this and you aren’t in the wrong for calling out that kind of behavior. Your child is your number one in your life and it’s your job to protect her at all cost even if it ruins your relationship with the grandma and anyone else for that matter! There is no age limit on that kind of stuff you know what I mean? It was wrong for sure and your husband should be speaking up on the matter cause it’s his family. I hope you continue to go with your gut and protect your baby at all cost. I’m sorry hun that you have to go through this and I’ll be praying for you and your family
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𝙄’𝙢 𝙨𝙤 𝙨𝙤𝙧𝙧𝙮 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙜𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨. 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙤 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙗 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙗𝙮 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨. 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙖 𝙪𝙥 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙨𝙚𝙚𝙢 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙖𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙚𝙧. 𝙏𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖 𝙢𝙤𝙢 𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙞𝙙𝙨 𝙣𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩. 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙣 𝙢𝙮 𝙤𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙄 𝙬𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙛 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙮 𝙝𝙪𝙨𝙗𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜. 𝙎𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙛 𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙣 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙣𝙚𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙝𝙚’𝙨 𝙛𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙬𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚. 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙩𝙡𝙚 𝙗𝙤𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙚𝙡𝙡 𝙝𝙞𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙝𝙚 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙥 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙮𝙥𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙗𝙚𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙞𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙖𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚. 𝙄𝙛 𝙞𝙩’𝙨 𝙢𝙖 𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙪𝙣𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙝𝙞𝙢 𝙩𝙤𝙪𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙙𝙖𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙚𝙧, 𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙚𝙧, 𝙡𝙞𝙘 𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙞𝙣 𝙝𝙚’𝙨 𝙢𝙤𝙪𝙩𝙝 𝙬𝙚𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙜. 𝙄𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙞𝙙 𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙙𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨, 𝙬𝙚𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿. 𝗜 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗺𝗮𝘆𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘆 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗶𝗻 𝗹𝗮𝘄𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗱 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝗶𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆. 𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝘂𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘂𝗽 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗼 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗮𝗯𝘆. 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗯𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝘂𝘀𝗯𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗹𝘂𝗰𝗸 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜 𝗵𝗼𝗽𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻𝘀 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁.
