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How to change

User Profile: StarlightEma
StarlightEma March 6th, 2022

Hello! I think I'm kinda stuck where I am now, knowing I want to change my life, but still trying to figure out how I want it to change... anyone had similar experience?

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User Profile: sympatheticTim1125
sympatheticTim1125 August 4th, 2024
@StarlightEma It's okay to be stuck. I feel like that is a big part of life. It's not the end of the world and you might have needed the break. I'm confident you will figure out the next moves in your life. You got this!
User Profile: aCalmOasis
aCalmOasis August 24th, 2024

@StarlightEma

Yes I can totally relate to what your going through Starlight. I feel like it’s a natural part of life to have these junctures where we know we need a change but we don’t quite know where to start. Having the awareness about it in the first place is a good starting point, so good on you for recognizing that. Did you know that there is a training guide for ‘getting unstuck’ in the training section of your dashboard? You may come across something in there that inspires you towards your next move.

What brings you the most joy in life? What are your hidden talents or gifts? In my experience, I have found that the answers to questions like that can be clues to discovering what might be next for us. Good luck in your discoveries and keep us posted. You got this!

User Profile: exquisiteGrace9695
exquisiteGrace9695 August 25th, 2024

@StarlightEma It sounds like you're feeling a bit uncertain about the direction you want to take in your life right now. That can be a tough place to be, especially when you know you want something to change but aren't sure what that looks like yet. You're not alone in feeling this way—many people go through similar experiences. What’s been on your mind as you think about the changes you want?

User Profile: LovelyForever6990
LovelyForever6990 September 11th, 2024

@StarlightEma I'm so sorry it sounds like you’re feeling really stuck right now. I know that can be a frustrating place to be. Making big changes can feel overwhelming. You’ve already taken a brave step by reaching out. That shows you have the strength to make changes in your life. What do you think is holding you back? If you have any reluctancies or specific things that are keeping you from making changes or being able to freely explore options that are different from your current circumstances, identifying these barriers can help you find ways to overcome them. Have you thought about starting with small, manageable steps? Even tiny changes can lead to significant progress over time.There are many resources out there, like books or podcasts, that can provide inspiration and guidance. Not to mention all of our love for listeners here at 7cups that are here for you throughout your journey.

User Profile: agreeableShade4304
agreeableShade4304 September 23rd, 2024

I’m going through a similar experience now. I want my life to be different than it is. But, it hard to make significant changes esp if you have bad habits that you need to change.

User Profile: LewisTheListener
LewisTheListener September 24th, 2024

I completely understand where you’re coming from with this. The first step is acknowledging that you want something to change, and you should be proud of yourself for reaching that marker.


I would encourage anyone experiencing an issue like this to either reach out to a friend or Listener on this platform to talk through how they feel about their life right now. They may just be able to ask some questions to help you filter through your own thoughts and identify that thing you want to change. :)

User Profile: SoniyaJonas
SoniyaJonas September 26th, 2024

I’ve been there too—feeling stuck, knowing I wanted change but unsure how to make it happen. What helped me was taking small steps, like exploring new hobbies or learning something different, even if I wasn’t sure they were the right paths.

Over time, I gained more clarity and confidence. It’s okay not to have it all figured out right away; the process of exploring can lead you to the change you're looking for. Just keep moving forward, one small step at a time!

User Profile: giggleHoney2682
giggleHoney2682 March 20th, 2025

hi starlightema! I think many people can relate to this feeling! You won’t know until you start trying new things and making changes! It can cause a lot of uncertainty but know you’re not alone! There are plenty of people who can relate!


User Profile: MarkSmileKeeper
MarkSmileKeeper March 24th, 2025

@StarlightEma Change is something we can achieve if we are both persistent and patient. Try to take baby steps and go one after another, knowing that sometimes you'd take one backwards to get stronger and keep going. Do you have a purpose for your life? Chose one and then make a plan to make progress on it. And above all, get emotional support from those you love.

User Profile: Hereforyou111222
Hereforyou111222 March 25th, 2025

Hey , the key to remove the feeling of being stuck . Is to take tiny tiny steps towards your goals , first outline your goals and I recommend using a schedule to help you and motivate you . Then every time you finish a task you cross it off and it’ll create a really nice feeling ..

I hope this helps dear 🎀🌸 don’t worry it’s never too late