How to change

@StarlightEma

It sounds like you’re in a really uncertain place right now, wanting change, but not quite knowing what direction that change should take. Feeling “stuck” like that can be really frustrating, especially when you know something needs to shift, but the path forward isn’t clear yet.
You’re not alone in this. A lot of people go through periods where they’re ready for growth but unsure where to begin.

If it ever feels helpful, 7 Cups has a Growth Path Self-Help Guide that many members use when they’re exploring what they want their life to look like. It walks through things step by step and can sometimes make that sense of “stuckness” feel a bit lighter.

@StarlightEma

Hi, yes many people feel like that at some point in life. Wanting change but not being fully sure what direction to take can feel confusing. It’s okay to take some time to figure things out slowly. Sometimes just thinking about what feels important to you can be a good start. What kind of change have you been thinking about lately?

Hey @StarlightEma, thanks for opening up about this. It sounds like you’re in a place where you know you want some kind of change in your life, but you’re still trying to figure out what that change should actually look like. That uncertainty can feel really confusing and even a bit overwhelming sometimes.

@StarlightEma

For the longest time and really struggling for a sense of purpose to move forwards.

@StarlightEma

I can relate to this much it feels like pieces of puzzle fitting in its own place one at a time. It's just like letting yourself to explore who u really are whats ur likes and dislikes and what makes u in ur own skin without hiding it. So let urself free to explore into this journey just with a baby steps day by day

@StarlightEma

Hello friend, honestly you may not like the sound of this, but the best way to see what you would like to change is through experience and from it you will learn what you wish to stay the same and what you wish to change.

I make it sound so easy but it is a lot harder in practice

Hope this helps :)

@StarlightEma Sorry you are feeling stuck with this. Making changes in life is actually a big thing, and it does take time. Be kind to yourself 😊

Is there anything that has helped you through a time like this before?

Sometimes when I am unsure of things, I journal and write it all out! 

Clarity will come, I believe in you! 

@StarlightEma yeah it's frustrating to take a decision at this point. But by the time, we becomes able to decide what's best for us. Best wishes 🍀

Hi there I was there in your shoes and i can totally relate how you feel and it's good that you shared this with others. you can definitely change your life but all i can say is take small steps first i am there with you.

@StarlightEma

Changing can be hard and it is understandable to be aware that you want to change but not sure how to do that. Just being at that point is a good first step. Change doesn't happen instantly it comes slowly over time. Look at all the options and see which ones pull you in.