I feel disconnected from everything and everyone
I feel like the only way I connect with people is through sex. I love sex but I dont know how to have anything more and i want to feel more but cant seem to figure out how to. I'm not even sure if I ever knew how to.
@KaleidoscopeAura
Hey there, thanks for writing and sharing something so personal about your life. Yes it can be hard to connect with people and I guess through sex it is a way you can. Perhaps you could share with us more about this connection you are after. I guess like perhaps you want to have that feeling not only with sex. Sounds like you are stuck with that.
Anyways keep in touch
Bye
Moni
@MonicaQu thank you for your response. I guess I want to feel like someone actually knows me and cares about me outside physical attraction.
@KaleidoscopeAura
Hey again! I guess you want to feel a connection that has sex but something more like you want them to like you for you. I guess in relationships as time goes by not only sex is important so is other things. Would you like to share about how you meet people? Have you met someone who you could nearly connect with?
@KaleidoscopeAura
Hi Kaleidoscope,
I sometimes feel the same way. I think something that helps me feel more connected to other people is when I can feel really connected to myself and really confident in who I am and what I love.
I remember feeling scared and lonely in the past even though I had lots of friends, and I think it was because people really were not putting effort into taking care of me, including myself. Ask yourself out on a date and treat yourself right. You so deserve it. And then when you're all charged up, maybe ask someone else out on a date, even if it's just a friend date and do fun happy things.
I promise that you're not alone right now and that sex is fine and wonderful, but that you can say no to sex and you have so much value in this world as just yourself. You don't need to entertain anyone or make them feel good for them to love you.
@ivoryBirch8827
Thank you so much for your response. It actually made me cry. i needed to hear that last sentence.
