One way my fear holds me back is.....
Mainly just making moves on the girls I like.
fear makes me paranoid
One way my fear holds me back,is that by anticipating too much negative things I'm not living and enjoying the present.
One way fear holds me back. Scared of making my life even worse than it is. Especially by trying to make it better.
From getting another job with a better schedule.
From meeting new people.
From going to the gym.
From trusting man.
My fear is holding me back from deeper relationships because I'm always afraid of disappointing others if I truly speak my mind
@TheBoringDomestic
i might not be a listener, but what you describe is acceptance.if you speak from your heart and people don't accept your opinion , well in a way they don't accept you for who you are.
One thing that drives me crazy is the amount of love i have for him and all the rejection i have recieved from him after the breakup. And was not my fault.
From falling in love. I feel like I'm not really genuinely going to matter to anyone and that everyone that comes into my life is going to leave
@youwillfindaway
You're mistreating yourself. Listen, everyone wants to be loved but often we think the answers are only in romance. Its not true! There are people that love you already I'm sure and besides keeping away from falling in love you're not being fair to yourself or the many people who are more than willing to cherish you. There is a beautiful person right infront of you every time you look into a mirror and fear should not keep them from the world or possibilities of experiencing different types of love. You are stronger and better than that
@Bluecarrisole
Thank you so much, reading this really did make me feel a lot better! <3
I feel like the main reason I feel this way is my internal negativity and I'm sure once I'll be able to get rid of it there are going to be several opportunities out there
@youwillfindaway dont be so hard on yourself :( sometimes it just takes time for the right type of people to enter our lives, and i believe everything happens for a reason and if one situations doesnt work out, theres just something better waiting for us :)
Not being able to accept love from someone who cares. My trust was demolished loads of times by different people and now I fear I will go through the same pain and experiences again. I don't think I can love fully anymore and that's sad
@helpfulZebra528
Everyone hurts and makes mistakes, it makes us human. But what you need to decide is who is worth forgiving and who isn't. Without opening up and trying to love again you'll keep yourself from growing as a person and experiencing true happiness. Love again, be happy and take what comes with it but only for someone you feel is worth it.
@helpfulZebra528
I feel you. I got out of a bad relationship that destroyed me emotionally and mentally.
Now having reconnected with an absolutely wonderful girl I'm scared of being vulnerable, and scared that I won't be able to love her fully.
@Musicismyfriend
Being vulnerable is scary but that's what makes love worthwhile, to know that you can let your guard down and have no walls around someone and they accept you for who you are is just so damn wonderful. Take it one step at a time and you'll get there, that fear will shrink and eventually cease to exist
From meeting new people. I doubt that people will like me for who I truly am, I feel like I come off as shallow and like I'm trying to hard
@Bluecarrisole I feel same