The closest person to me treated me like nothing.
Hi all, so here is my story. Ever since I joined college I had a friend , the only person on this planet to whom I completely opened up to. Raw. Because he listened to me and as far as I remember understood me. Then after shifting to the college hostel I started feeling anxious and self concerned so I used to call him and talk to him. But then he told me that 2 yrs back when we became friends I was just chilling around and didn't want to be one with you. Then a month later he had a girlfriend who told him I was treating him with no respect and he accused me of that and left me as a friend. Left me clueless about how I was even doing that.....I was left with no one to open up myself to......and my anxiety shot up ever since then...And now I don't trust anybody to listen to me ....
Hi! Well I just wanna tell you that i know is not easy I had a similar situation with a friend of mine and the things that i learn is that you never get to know them really they can give you punch on your back but still be greatful that life take out that fake friends. So i know what is have anxiety is really hard but if you need you know someone to listen you here i am .
Thank you Ester...♥️ I appreciate the fact that he is out of my life but I somehow don't like its after effect...not able to trust anyone again....at the back of my mind I always feel the friends I am talking to are they really treat me like that ????? Like nothing??? Like just because they don't have any other hence they come to me , once they have they would go......??? I hate this insecurities all the time....I want to have faith.....does asking them and talking to them about it help????
Your welcome 💗. Trust me at first is hard to trust anyone but you will know who is really to trust. Dont let them get in to you or treat you like that because now you have insecurities and other things i know that we need friends to give you that hump to keep going but friends like that is better to cutt off or be honest and tell them how you feeling about the way they are treating you. You work on yourself to be better to not let people affect you because in life theres always gonna be this situation and we need to learn how to keep it toguether. Because if you let it affect you it will destroy you... Never lose faith! you will find good friends believe me!
