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Travel Anxiety

User Profile: kp4rra
kp4rra April 2nd, 2021

I am traveling out of state to visit with family for Easter and I feel so out of sorts. All I can think about is what ifs. What if I have a panic attack and they think i’m crazy, what if my anxiety gets so bad I can’t act normal? Anyone have tips for travel anxiety?

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User Profile: HappyHelper242
HappyHelper242 February 25th, 2025

@kp4rra I get it. Traveling in itself can be challenging, and when you add family into the mix, it can be even more stressful. What do you think is the worst that can happen on your trip? Have you tried breathing techniques? That often helps me when I get anxious about something.

User Profile: pikaTangerine1
pikaTangerine1 February 26th, 2025

@kp4rra

I am sorry for what you are going through. It seems like you are overthinking it too much and many times the panic attacks are occurring specifically because of this. My tip is to try to relax, empty your mind from negative thoughts and try to focus on your purpose. Have a nice travel and take care!

User Profile: lovelyVision9648
lovelyVision9648 February 26th, 2025

@kp4rra That sounds really tough, and I completely understand why you’re feeling this way. Traveling and being around family can be stressful, especially when anxiety is already on your mind. One thing that might help is grounding techniques—like deep breathing, focusing on your surroundings, or carrying something familiar that brings comfort. It can also help to remind yourself that you don’t have to be 'perfect' around family; they care about you. Have you found anything that helps when your anxiety feels overwhelming?

User Profile: nide12
nide12 February 26th, 2025

The thought of having panic attack can be frightening and I am sorry you are feeling scared about it

User Profile: jocundle29
jocundle29 March 6th, 2025

@kHey there,


traveling can be stressful, especially when anxiety starts throwing all those "what ifs" at you. Just know that you’re not alone in feeling this way! (speaking from someone who's furthering her studies in a state where she doesn't know anyone)

One thing that can help is reminding yourself that you’ve handled tough moments before, and you’ll get through this one too. Try focusing on one step at a time instead of the whole trip at once.

If you start feeling overwhelmed, grounding techniques like deep breathing, listening to calming music, or even holding something familiar (like a small object from home) can help bring you back to the present.

And if your anxiety does flare up, that doesn’t mean something is wrong with you—it just means you’re human. Your family loves you, and you don’t have to be "perfect" around them.

You’ve got this! Wishing you a smooth and stress-free trip.

– Jocundle29 
User Profile: thoughtfulStar5185
thoughtfulStar5185 March 8th, 2025

I hear you, @kp4rra. Traveling can be very stressful, especially when anxiety brings in all the 'what ifs.' It’s completely understandable to feel this way, but you’re not alone!

One thing that can help is having a 'travel toolkit'—things that bring comfort, like calming music, breathing exercises, or even a small grounding object to hold. Also, reminding yourself that it’s okay to feel anxious can take off some of the pressure to ‘act normal.’

Have you tried deep breathing or visualization exercises before traveling? They can sometimes help ease the nerves beforehand. You got this!

User Profile: admirableNarwhal879
admirableNarwhal879 March 9th, 2025

@kp4rra: hello sorry to hear that you are going through this, I just wanted to start off by saying your the not the only one that is struggling with this type of situation of anxiety :) but some ways to help with this is to try and tell your self everything is going to be okay! and try some coping methods like the breathing one breath in through you Nosie and out from your mouth remember here at 7cups we have a 1on1 chat bored that is always open 24/7 that you can use :) 

hope that helped 

best wishes 

Isaac  

User Profile: JesseDerflay44
JesseDerflay44 April 6th

@kp4rra I sympathize because I'm a fellow sufferer. I got a lot out of a great new book called The Years of Travelling Anxiously which addresses the wide range of causes - and possible solutions - to travel anxiety while at the same time acknowledging that anxiety is a fact of life. 

https://amzn.eu/d/06nSUKKR

User Profile: Ava47
Ava47 April 9th

@kp4rraHi

Hi kp4rra ,sorry to hear that you are feeling this way. That sounds like a lot to sit with, especially all those “what if” thoughts playing out in your head before you even get there. It’s like your mind is already trying to live through every possible scenario.

In moments like that, when everything feels a bit intense, small sensory things can sometimes help like even tasting something really sour, like a lemon or sour sweet. It kind of grabs your attention and pulls you out of that spiral for a second. Have you ever heard of the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique?

I’m really hoping the trip turns out to be kinder than your anxiety is making it feel and you are going to have a wonderful time with your family.

@kp4rra Travel anxiety can really be tough, especially since traveling on its own can already feel stressful, and adding family into the mix can make it even more overwhelming. I can understand why all the ‘what if’ thoughts are bringing up so much anxiety for you. It makes sense that those ‘what if’ thoughts feel hard to sit with, especially when they’re focused on things that feel out of your control. A couple of things that some people find helpful are making sure they feel prepared ahead of time, so there are fewer last-minute worries, and also gently bringing focus back to what is in their control in the moment, like their breathing or grounding themselves when anxiety starts to rise.