idea for new group chat
i have an idea for a new group chat
it's for people who don't have any friends including girlfriends and boyfriends. The rules are that you can't talk about friendships at all, because not everyone wants to seee other people talking about friendshisp or relationships. And we can talk about the struggles of being friendless and how other people dont like to be around us.
It could be called "Friendless Support Chat". i would be willing to help run it even. And, we could have a forums for it too. And these are the sub forums i am thinking for it:
Friendless Support Check-in
Daily reflection
Being completely alone
Rejection recovery
I would love to help make this happen, if i need to collect a certian number of votes to get it approved please let me know so that I can work on it. I am really looking forward to this I think it will be one of the best group chats on 7cups.
@ahhlo there was a lonliness chatroom at one point. I can't remember all the rooms that still exist as popups but rarely actually do pop up.
The room didn't have any special rules.
@ahhlo
That could be helpful 😊
I'm not sure who you would need to talk to in order to get something like that off the ground...
i dont know who to talk to either, i asked in the sharing circle but no one would reply
@ahhlo
I suggest reaching out to a mod 😊 You can by chatting with whoever is currently on shift in the chat rooms
@ahhlo
Hi ahhlo, thanks for suggesting several ideas for the chat room topic. I can help to ask people who may know what to do. To host the chatroom, you may need to go through moderation training. Happy to see you full of passion for these topics and eager to help this community!
@Eudaimonia99 can someone please help me. I cant stand the sharing circle anymore with ppl talking about their friendships and relationships it just makes me so upset. There has to be other ppl who have this same concern thats why we need to make a new group chat where you can't talk about things like that.
what if you made a group chat on Instagram, I’d definitely join, seriously.
@nueni ii dont have instagram, i cant make one, I just want to stay on 7cups
I get it, I’m new on here I just joined today. I don’t know how to make a group chat But I can ask someone, but I’m definitely interested in your idea
@nueni i dont know how to get the group chat made i wish someone would help me make it becuase im lost. I really want to do whatever i have to to make it real.
Okay so I tried looking it up on google, and I even asked the sharing community which have some real people in there, & they’ve been trying to make a group chat on here too. We may have to find another app, but I WILL keep looking for us.
Hey so I asked one of the listeners on this app and she said it wasn’t possible to create a group chat on here :(
@nueni the listeners cant help, only a mod can help, we need a mod to help make this happen, then we can do it.
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wait I saw the notification pop up saying that you replied but I can’t see it, can you retype it please
please somebody help me
im so sad, i want this chat to happen so bad but the community mod said he wont help me
my life is over, i will always be miserable and friendless, i will never be happy, theres no point to me even waking up in the morning
please don’t say things like that 😢 your life’s not over, you will find friends and happiness. Have you tried talking to one of the listeners on here ? You can talk with them one on one
@ahhlo Hey there! I went through the thread and I'm very sorry you feel this way. I can imagine it can be very difficult to be in a setting where people are sharing about their relationships and friendships when we are feeling this way. This probably just adds to the emotions 💜 But I really admire how you're still trying to help support everyone who may be in the same position.
Thanks to @Eudaimonia99 for informing me about this thread! I'll share a few things that come to me immediately. One, we have the Member Community Room. Usually, this is more of a free-flowing room and anyone can hang out in there but an important point is that it doesn't support one specific area. Another thing I can think of is hosting check-ins, hangout sessions (in Support Room 24/7 maybe?) as per your suggestion. I have a very vague memory of the Loneliness Room but it was perhaps active at one point, but I won't be too sure. I'm the listener chatroom ambassador, with not a lot of knowledge about group support, so I'm tagging our admin oversight, @ASilentObserver for Group Support so that he can see your ideas! And I'd be more than glad to help you make this possible too. We're here for you 💜