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i woke up at 3:50 am :(

User Profile: okeyyyy
okeyyyy November 22nd, 2018

Its summer now, and today its hot and dry, which makes it difficult for me to sleep, I love humidity .

I water the plants, took my dog for a small walk, and now I will see if there is anything interest on chatting in 7 cups laugh

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User Profile: Darkseed
Darkseed November 22nd, 2018

@okeyyyy

Ah, summer! I'm on the other side of the world. It snowed last week. I miss the ocean, fishing and crabbing, and plants that grew easily. The humidity can be oppressive, however.

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okeyyyy OP November 22nd, 2018

@Darkseed I would love to have snow, where I live it never snows :)

By the way, luckily I was able to have a nap :)

how are things there with you? :)

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Darkseed November 22nd, 2018

@okeyyyy

I'm going to listen to guided meditation and lie down. I'm fighting depression today. It's a holiday, Thanksgiving here, and in a few hours, I'll have to be social. I'm not social, and it's difficult to talk about work. I don't want to be a wet blanket, but like many people, I have no choice but to endure this dinner.

Someone said that I should forgive my boss for the things she has done, but I find a flaw with that reasoning. If someone perpetually and persistently causes the negative behavior to people, what value is there in forgiving someone? Are people supposed to forgive someone who perpetually abuses them and will continue to do so? That's so flawed in thinking.

Other than degenerative arthritis in my knee, I like the snow. When it snows hard, I can't get out until the roads are cleared off, and I get 'snow days' off work. Sadly, sometimes that usually means 'no pay' days as well.

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okeyyyy OP November 24th, 2018

@Darkseed

oh, thanks giving, maybe it would be nice to spend it with less people. Yeah, when you see the same people over and over, who are either family or work related, and having to pretend you like everyone really sucks. Yeah, like working most of the time and then talk about work you must like want to feel like getting fed up.. lol . or you could do what I do fly away in your mind, to a world of fantasy :) or you could play with the children :) to avoid the stupid adult talk :)

Yeah, some bosses can really suck, but I guess the best way to go about it is to grow a thick skin and to learn to deatch from his anger and bad negative influence, if you can :) I bet you must have a lot of good work colleges who have positive energies, just think on them and that could help you. Also think in positive things. To be honest, try to not duel upon such people, if you get caught into the negative spiral of energy it will just drag you. :) Be safe :)

Oh, I am sorry for your arthiritis . Snow is lovely :)

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User Profile: ruffneckred
ruffneckred November 22nd, 2018

Amazing to interact with a person on the other side of the planet. I am sitting on a frozen lake fishing. Sun has been up for about 90 minutes. Have a great day

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okeyyyy OP November 22nd, 2018

@ruffneckred wow, awesome , a frozen lake fishing :) I get bored fishing though .

Yeah, amazing, :)

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ruffneckred November 22nd, 2018

@okeyyyy

I love ice fishing, there is something about watching a bobber disappear that is very fun. In ND we get 4 lines through the ice so you can stay quite busy walking around and checking them. It was 40 F today so not hard to stay warm. Always have phone if boredom sets in, today the fish did not co-operate, but I had fun. And the fresh air is very worth it. Have a great day.

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