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Worried about the mistakes i made

User Profile: DontBeJay
DontBeJay February 20th, 2023

I have issues with making friends to the point where i don’t really talk to anyone first, they usually have to talk to me and get me to open up which takes a long time. Usually i have these moments where i get really depressing and i begin to worry that they don’t want to stay friends anymore because i have that bad habit combined with my inability to make friends and i don’t know how to be more open about this with my friends because i worry too much about what the outcome would be

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 February 20th, 2023

@DontBeJay

being worried is a tough way to live ...... i used to quite often but i realize .............. worry is a thief!

Worry stops you from experiences/ friends/ better jobs or opportunities ...........worry takes up your time which IMO is our most valuable item. worry has no upside ....... while i still worry worse case scenario type things i only had it happen once and even then things worked out ........

i find nowadays worries of saying the wrong thing or ticking someone off is not scary at all as most people forget what i told them yesterday ... so wrapped up in themselves or other things they forget any mistake or misspoke item in a flash ....... before we had internet and all these items etc people actually paid attention to their friends.


User Profile: littleBarry177
littleBarry177 February 20th, 2023
@DontBeJay Hi. I think I am a little bit like you. I always get into anxiety of the relationship. I was so tired to be the best. Recently, I gradually know that everyone don't care me too much. I don't have to worry about this. The only thing I need to do is just be myself, and I just confirm that what I am doing is right. That is ok. Let us be better together.