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What do you hate about yourself?

User Profile: cosmicjellyfishqueen
cosmicjellyfishqueen September 8th, 2016

Depression is bizarre in how in alters the way we think. We may know logically that it is our depression making us think this way but knowing that doesn't invalidate it. So write down what exactly you hate about yourself, let it all out. Once you do look back at what you wrote. Hopefully documenting your thought process will make it easier to work through your issues. Plus we will all be here to help.

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User Profile: annoyinglysecretiveWolf
annoyinglysecretiveWolf December 27th, 2019

I hate myself in general. I lost my memory a while agos. i have no connections. im annoying and i have no idea who i am. im uncertain and i hate that. i hatemy scars. im still try8ng to figure out iif Sage is really my name.

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User Profile: SIODRIX
SIODRIX December 29th, 2019

@annoyinglysecretiveWolf

Not being interested in discussions, having problems when it comes to laughing. Im way to observant and analytic. People are full of feelings, im very empty.

Having a bad memory, forgetting situations people tell me about, what they do for a living, whwre they live age and so on.

Seeing other details than others is also very painful, as this disrupts me when i try to work like everyone else. Usually the details i see are not so relevant.

I hate my up and downs. Days i feel like my brain is fully functioning and days where my brain is slow, processing goes slow and so on. I dont have time for downs as i try to teach myself new things. There seems to be no solution to dealing with this problem. Maybe ritalin medication or so on..

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User Profile: BiByeBoy
BiByeBoy December 27th, 2019

Tbh I hate how loud I am. It's fine when it's with people who get me, but when I am with my classmates it's like I'm an alien trying to fit in with humans. It's really annoying and I hate myself for not blending in.

User Profile: Iwantadegree
Iwantadegree December 28th, 2019

The fact that I am somehow incapable of falling in love with anyone.

How unmotivated and bleak I am.

My aversion towards physical affection

How much I procrastinate

My reliance on the internet to lighten my mood

My sudden reclusiveness and refusal to hang out with friends

I suck at texting people back and make them sad

My awful short term memory

How bad I am at math

My tendency to self harm

My frequent fantasies of my brother getting arrested for the shit hes put my family through

User Profile: mikenaiwc
mikenaiwc December 28th, 2019

not taking a chance, a leap of faith, an attempt/try/test, an experience.

but rather the continuous giving in to fear.

resulting in a lost of life experiences and just pure full of regrets.

User Profile: Lmarie1217
Lmarie1217 December 29th, 2019

How I suck at communication, I have anxiety 95% of the time, I hate my body, the way I look, I suck at relationships (I'm currently in one)

the list of things I love about myself is way shorter than this one ...

User Profile: dworth257
dworth257 December 29th, 2019

i hate how easily my emotions affect my state of mind. i hate how i look back on better versions of myself and feel as though i let so much of my life and so many possibilities slip through my fingers. i hate how helpless i feel all the time

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User Profile: dworth257
dworth257 December 29th, 2019

@dworth257 i hate how i never feel like i can translate myself and how i feel to other people

User Profile: FillYourselfWithSelfLove
FillYourselfWithSelfLove December 29th, 2019

@dworth257

I am sorry to hear what you go through. I used to do that, thinking back on "better" versions of myself in the past, and

thinking about missing out on so many possible opportunities, friendships, and good times.

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User Profile: dworth257
dworth257 December 29th, 2019

@FillYourselfWithSelfLove how did you get through it?

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User Profile: nina50
nina50 December 29th, 2019

I hate that I wear my feelings on my shoulder for the world to see

User Profile: jazmine1986
jazmine1986 December 29th, 2019

I hate myself for having anxiety ,

I feel my ❤ is like an stone pressing on it .

Feel like crying I can't , hate my feelings after meeting him sometimes I really wanted to give him a hug I don't have courage to ask there's quite few things I really hate myself . A few times I wanted to breakdown , I don't feel like myself anymore ...👊😢👊

User Profile: symphatheticTree4363
symphatheticTree4363 December 29th, 2019

I am not strict enough to follow with my goals. I never follow through and focused on my goals. I don't do well with making the most of the opportunities I have.

User Profile: KasumiForest11
KasumiForest11 December 29th, 2019

I hate I keep switching between self love and self hate with no apparent reason.