Is it ever okay for a psychiatrist to say this to me?

This is something that happened in the past.

Because of whatever happened, trauma, resentment and burnout combined, I had stopped going to psychiatry hospital for treatment. I forgot exact date and year but lets say its 2023 that I stop going. Then I came back at 2024 for treatment, firstly I met different doctors who prescribe me, but on following sessions I met the first psychiatrist who had diagnosed me on 2021.

The conversation went like this when he discovered I stopped coming to hospital.

Him: why didn't you come? Do you want me to inject your butt? (Slightly squint his eyes)

Me: (fawn response, i laughed) no, please dont.

And then some more stuff happened i cant tell whole story, its unpleasant memory.

I vented on social group about it when i came home. I was in tears and in pain. I was so triggered and shamed. Did i overreacted?

Lemme add the fact that i actually have schizophrenia mother who resists treatment so she gets injections at home and i had to deal with the trauma for years. This psychiatrist knew about my mom having schizophrenia and what treatment she gets.

Anyway.. i tried opening up to my clinical psychologist back then.. i cried a lot about it.. but the way she approached about it made me feel like i was overreacting.

I think she really focused on cbt. I feel like i wasnt emotionally met.

Was it okay for my psychiatrist to say that?