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Is it ever okay for a psychiatrist to say this to me?
Trauma Support / by fairmindedFig719
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 September 18th, 2025
...See more This is something that happened in the past. Because of whatever happened, trauma, resentment and burnout combined, I had stopped going to psychiatry hospital for treatment. I forgot exact date and year but lets say its 2023 that I stop going. Then I came back at 2024 for treatment, firstly I met different doctors who prescribe me, but on following sessions I met the first psychiatrist who had diagnosed me on 2021. The conversation went like this when he discovered I stopped coming to hospital. Him: why didn't you come? Do you want me to inject your butt? (Slightly squint his eyes) Me: (fawn response, i laughed) no, please dont. And then some more stuff happened i cant tell whole story, its unpleasant memory. I vented on social group about it when i came home. I was in tears and in pain. I was so triggered and shamed. Did i overreacted? Lemme add the fact that i actually have schizophrenia mother since childhood who resists treatment so she gets injections at home and i had to deal with the trauma for years. This psychiatrist knew about my mom having schizophrenia and what treatment she gets. Anyway.. i tried opening up to my clinical psychologist back then.. i cried a lot about it.. but the way she approached about it made me feel like i was overreacting. I think she really focused on cbt. I feel like i wasnt emotionally met. Was it okay for my psychiatrist to say that?
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Is it ever okay for a psychiatrist to say this to me?
Depression Support / by fairmindedFig719
Last post
 September 20th, 2025
...See more This is something that happened in the past. Because of whatever happened, trauma, resentment and burnout combined, I had stopped going to psychiatry hospital for treatment. I forgot exact date and year but lets say its 2023 that I stop going. Then I came back at 2024 for treatment, firstly I met different doctors who prescribe me, but on following sessions I met the first psychiatrist who had diagnosed me on 2021. The conversation went like this when he discovered I stopped coming to hospital. Him: why didn't you come? Do you want me to inject your butt? (Slightly squint his eyes) Me: (fawn response, i laughed) no, please dont. And then some more stuff happened i cant tell whole story, its unpleasant memory. I vented on social group about it when i came home. I was in tears and in pain. I was so triggered and shamed. Did i overreacted? Lemme add the fact that i actually have schizophrenia mother who resists treatment so she gets injections at home and i had to deal with the trauma for years. This psychiatrist knew about my mom having schizophrenia and what treatment she gets. Anyway.. i tried opening up to my clinical psychologist back then.. i cried a lot about it.. but the way she approached about it made me feel like i was overreacting. I think she really focused on cbt. I feel like i wasnt emotionally met. Was it okay for my psychiatrist to say that?
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Im sad
ADHD Support / by fairmindedFig719
Last post
 November 17th, 2025
...See more Im unable to move on from the hurt ive dealt with. I dont if life will get better. Im so tired of life. Im tired of the things im struggling. Im tired of not getting the right help. I have so many mismatch with therapist.. and i just feel its hopeless. Im having trust issues with mental health professionals. I could write a list of all that happened so far.. but im too tired. The last clinical psychologist i saw told me im cherry picking. I spoke to AI about it, so I'm gonna copy paste: ``` session #5 we discussed about many things,cbt and how to clean my room, "tile by tile". but something rly bothered me. me: when i was a child i would play video games instead of showering. her: you probably needed to be caned at the time (chuckle) session #6 (after a month or longer) due to ruminating from her comment and struggling with other things i brought up to her.i told her i struggled with doing the homework and i havent been coping well. and i brought up one of the thing among other. me: when i told u i avoided shower as kid you told me i probably needed to be caned it really bothered me. her:you're cherry picking. youre taking the small part of the session as the big picture. i know the reason why she said im cherry picking. because instead of focusing on cleaning my room tile by tile.. or the cbt homework.. and other positive part of the therapy.. i got stuck from her comment..her joke about me needing to be caned. tbh..that wasnt the only instance where i felt the rupture. but do u think it was fair for her to respond to my bringing with "cherry picking"? ``` So this is just one of it. Im so tired... Im beginning to hate cbt too.. i find it invalidating. I'm seeing a doctor who isnt a psychiatrist yet.. he's giving me therapy every month while also prescribing me anti depressant.. i feel like im just going along.. i dont really trust him that much even if he is friendly. I dont trust him enough to tell him what happened with my psychologist. Oh btw, she ghosted me too. She never gave me next appointment date. That was abiut 3-4 months ago. >.> I went to therapy department, they contacted her during while shes busy and she said she will inform about the date, the staff there told me they'll contact me. That time i was feeling kinda dissociated too or like a hung over after the therapy session.. i was crying.. she was awful.
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Idk whats wrong with me
Depression Support / by fairmindedFig719
Last post
 September 16th, 2025
...See more Im unable to move on from the hurt ive dealt with. I dont if life will get better. Im so tired of life. Im tired of the things im struggling. Im tired of not getting the right help. I have so many mismatch with therapist.. and i just feel its hopeless. Im having trust issues with mental health professionals. I could write a list of all that happened so far.. but im too tired. The last clinical psychologist i saw told me im cherry picking. I spoke to AI about it, so I'm gonna copy paste: ``` session #5 we discussed about many things,cbt and how to clean my room, "tile by tile". but something rly bothered me. me: when i was a child i would play video games instead of showering. her: you probably needed to be caned at the time (chuckle) session #6 (after a month or longer) due to ruminating from her comment and struggling with other things i brought up to her.i told her i struggled with doing the homework and i havent been coping well. and i brought up one of the thing among other. me: when i told u i avoided shower as kid you told me i probably needed to be caned it really bothered me. her:you're cherry picking. youre taking the small part of the session as the big picture. i know the reason why she said im cherry picking. because instead of focusing on cleaning my room tile by tile.. or the cbt homework.. and other positive part of the therapy.. i got stuck from her comment..her joke about me needing to be caned. tbh..that wasnt the only instance where i felt the rupture. but do u think it was fair for her to respond to my bringing with "cherry picking"? ``` So this is just one of it. Im so tired... Im beginning to hate cbt too.. i find it invalidating. I'm seeing a doctor who isnt a psychiatrist yet.. he's giving me therapy every month while also prescribing me anti depressant.. i feel like im just going along.. i dont really trust him that much even if he is friendly. I dont trust him enough to tell him what happened with my psychologist. Oh btw, she ghosted me too. She never gave me next appointment date. That was abiut 3-4 months ago. >.> I went to therapy department, they contacted her during while shes busy and she said she will inform about the date, the staff there told me they'll contact me. That time i was feeling kinda dissociated too or like a hung over after the therapy session.. i was crying.. she was awful.
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Non functioning
ADHD Support / by fairmindedFig719
Last post
 August 26th, 2025
...See more Idk if this is undiagnosed adhd or its mdd (diagnosed). I'm 33.5kg 152cm. Taking fluvoxamine 100mg for about 6 months. not functioning well. No shower, no brush teeth, no do laundry, no cook, no text friends, room extreme clutter, memory issues, addicted to phone screen. I dont self harm but i skin pick, i have bfrb, i dont have eating disorder in traditional sense, im just too 'lazy' to make food. I feel miserable like this. I feel overwhelmed. Im struggling to live 😞 I asked dr/therapist about it but i was brushed off.
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Not functioning
ADHD Support / by fairmindedFig719
Last post
 September 8th, 2025
...See more Idk if this is undiagnosed adhd or its mdd (diagnosed). I'm 33.5kg 152cm. Taking fluvoxamine 100mg for about 6 months. not functioning well. No shower, no brush teeth, no do laundry, no cook, no text friends, room extreme clutter, memory issues, addicted to phone screen. I dont self harm but i skin pick, i have bfrb, i dont have eating disorder in traditional sense, im just too 'lazy' to make food. I feel miserable like this. I feel overwhelmed. Im struggling to live 😞 I asked dr/therapist about it but i was brushed off.
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