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Suffering From Depression? Make A Friend!

User Profile: ZaraSmiles
ZaraSmiles January 9th, 2016

Let's face it, depression can suck big-time and in more ways than one. It can also make you feel like you're all alone. Here, on this site, in this forum, in this thread, let's each find a friend! Because you're not alone, this entire community is here for you.

So come along, post your name/username, your age, a hobby, one random fact about you and anything you like! If you want, maybe a little background regarding your depression?

NB. You are under no obligation to have to post any of the aforementioned, do whatever you are comfortable with, okay? You're amazingly strong, sweet pea.

Let's all find a friend!

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User Profile: ih0pe
ih0pe January 11th, 2016

Making New Friends Is Always FANTABULOUS ! laugh

So here goes ! My real name is Anne-Marie but you can call me Hopey or really anything else you like ! ♥ I'm a 3000 ( 15 in human years :P ) year old alien 👽 !!! One not so random thing about me is I LOVE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU ♥ beacause you're all beautiful , amazing , awesomesauceum human beings and you're all worth all the love in my alien heart 💙 and more ! ♥ I absolutely adore all animals , especially bunnies and horses and I also love any kind of art or craft ! I'm always making things ( most of which I never finish :P ) and also writing or singing ! ♥ I've been having a tough time with depression for a couple of years now but 7cups is helping me so much with that !!! 💚

Thankies to the AMAZING @ZaraSmiles for this wonderful thread !!! heart

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January 11th, 2016

@ih0pe do you really love me? no one loves me on here??? is that true. 0.o

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User Profile: ih0pe
ih0pe January 11th, 2016

@Fear333

Ofcourse I love you dear ! heart I mean that too , I'm not just saying it . You're a FANTABULOUS person who deserves to be loved no matter what !!! 💚

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January 11th, 2016

@ih0pe message me how do you do the colors like that

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User Profile: ih0pe
ih0pe January 12th, 2016

@Fear333

I'd love to be able to message you about the colour​s heart but it seems that you're an adult listener so it won't let me message you ! crying

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January 12th, 2016

@ih0pe oh.... Then u can't love me. Lol. :p.

You wouldn't happen to know what tag means because I always get tagged on here and I always think it's because of something bad

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User Profile: ih0pe
ih0pe January 12th, 2016

💕 @Fear333 💕

You'll have to forgive me for tagging you one more time then :P But it's nothing bad so anyways , just wanted to say I can ( and do ) still love you , even if I can't message you XD ! 💟

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January 12th, 2016

@ih0pepe whats the tags for?

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User Profile: plantkissed
plantkissed October 10th, 2016

Hi there!!!

You seem like a pretty darn cool alien! :3 I'm Charlie, and I'm 15, too! I love animals, and singing, and art, though I'm not very good at any of the art projects I try cheeky Rainbow colors are really lovely, and I like how you type, because it's very pretty surprise You're very sweet, and it made me so happy to hear that you love me! You're so kind, and I love you too! You deserve so much love, and happiness, and I hope that you get to pet lots of bunnies today smiley Although I have to say that I'm a big fan of cats, but bunnies are super cute, and I used to ride horses! I know it's cliche to ask, but do you have a favorite color? I hope that you have a great weekheart Sending love and hugs your way :3

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User Profile: plantkissed
plantkissed October 10th, 2016

@plantkissed whoops I forgot to tag you @ih0pe :3

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User Profile: mimameid
mimameid January 12th, 2016

Hello! I'm mimameid, age 23, and one of my hobbies is hiking! :D Random fact is that I ummm...I actually don't own a smartphone LOL.

My depression started around age 13, but it became on and off once I got into high school and I didn't take medication for it anymore. Two summers ago, though, it returned with a vengeance and I'm now back on meds and trying to keep my life together. Even though it's more of the milder form of depression, it still causes so many issues in my life. I'm glad that I found such a nice place such as 7cups to help me cope a little.

Nice to meet you! ^^

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January 12th, 2016

@mimameid. You know I bet it didn't come out of nowhere and I bet that you can get better like never before. Also one day you should get a smartphone :-) it will be a lot of fun

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User Profile: animalKiwi59
animalKiwi59 January 12th, 2016

hello everyone, my name is animalkiwi, i am 24 years old

as far as my hobby go, i will say its a tie between watching movies and filmmaking,

i was always fond of photography but it gre to filmmaking, i dun know maybe because of too much movies lol

random fact about me also revolves around it, i talk to myself a lot, people say its a bad thing but i keep doing it subconciously ,maybe because of my depression, anyhow like no matter where i am, i always imagine a film crew following me and filming everything i am doing, like all my life is a big feature film with me as a centre role, its too weird i know lol

my depression has a big role in why i am like this, all my life i have been depressed, maybe because i was exposed to some really sad things as a child, living in a dysfunctional family, and not having any sibling means i faced everything alone and having no one to share with, even growing up i didnt had friends to this date

anyhow i have accepted it and i try to distract my mind as often as i can :)

P.S: I was playing a video game today and i heard a brilliant thing in it which is ironic because vide games are non serious lol ,anyhow line was this:

"The thing about happiness is that you only know you had it when it's gone. I mean, you may think to yourself that you're happy. But you don't really believe it. You focus on the petty bullshit, or the next job, or whatever. It's only looking back by comparison with what comes after that you really understand, that's what happiness felt like"

P.S.S : I dont like kiwi animal lol

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January 12th, 2016

@animalKiwi59. I hope things change for you for the better

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User Profile: wittyStrings7179
wittyStrings7179 January 19th, 2016

Hiii! Someone tagged me on here, but I have no idea who :)

Either way, I just wanted to pop in and say hi, not really sure what else to say :) My name is Lana, I'm 20 and I adore reading. And cats. And music. And food. Food is nice.

User Profile: Amethyst64
Amethyst64 January 19th, 2016

Hey, all! My real name is Kati and I'm 18 years old. smiley I live in Delaware. Some of my favorite hobbies are art, video games, and shopping! I suffer from depression, anxiety, and social anxiety but I try my best not to let it over power me. I've come a long way but I still have a lot of fighting to do. Feel free to message me!heart

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User Profile: discreetAcres6234
discreetAcres6234 January 19th, 2016

@Amethyst64 Hi Kati :) Nice to meet you. You got me curious here about what video games you like. I'd love to hear more about that.

You also mentioned your love for shopping so I'm wondering how you would describe your style. And if you were forced to wear one outfit for the rest of your life, what would it be?

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User Profile: Amethyst64
Amethyst64 January 22nd, 2016

Hello :D well my favorite video games are usually from Nintendo (Legend of Zelda, Pokemon, Animal crossing etc). My style is pretty laid back I would say, I'd be totally comfortable wearing a tank top & sweats as my one and only outfit. cheeky

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User Profile: jr50
jr50 October 9th, 2016

@Amethyst64. Hi Kathi , I live in delaware too! Good to meet you

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User Profile: jr50
jr50 October 10th, 2016

@jr50. Sorry, Kati,I don't spell well

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User Profile: Hellelujahs
Hellelujahs January 19th, 2016

Hello, I'm Helle. I'm 23 years old and I love music, especially singing and playing it on my guitar, piano or saxophone.

A random fact about me is I like playing video games, but I'm not very good at them. I've got a gamer score of a little over 12,000 on my Xbox.

My depression has been present in my life since the beginning of high school, and maybe even some of middle school. I spent a long time pretending nothing was wrong because of the social stigma that comes with depression. Once I got into college things started getting more stressful and my depression became harder to ignore. Winter has always been a tough time of year for me and sometimes I cannot even convince myself to do the things I love.

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User Profile: heartfulHeart81
heartfulHeart81 September 26th, 2016

@Hellelujahs Hey there! I love music too. I play the ukulele (though not very well). I've also been dealing with depression for a while, about as long as you have (we are very close in age). Depression is difficult. It's a terrible feeling to be depressed and not be able to be cheered up by the things you love doing. I hope there is someone in your life who understands. Just remember that you are strong and the 7 cups community are all here to support you. There are self help guides on depression you can check out or talk with a trained active listener (I am one!). Thank you for sharing.

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User Profile: Hellelujahs
Hellelujahs January 19th, 2016

Hello, I'm Helle. I'm 23 years old and I love music, especially singing and playing it on my guitar, piano or saxophone.

A random fact about me is I like playing video games, but I'm not very good at them. I've got a gamer score of a little over 12,000 on my Xbox.

My depression has been present in my life since the beginning of high school, and maybe even some of middle school. I spent a long time pretending nothing was wrong because of the social stigma that comes with depression. Once I got into college things started getting more stressful and my depression became harder to ignore. Winter has always been a tough time of year for me and sometimes I cannot even convince myself to do the things I love.

User Profile: Irongryphon3
Irongryphon3 January 20th, 2016

Hi I'm Shanna. I am 19. I love books, but I haven't read a whole one in a while. I love to write poetry, and I also love language and languages. I do origami. Lately I find myself watching a lot of shows. I have an orange cat but he lives with my parents. Have a nice day.

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User Profile: mimameid
mimameid February 5th, 2016

@Irongryphon3

hello! Nice to meet you~ So what kinds of books and languages do you like?

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User Profile: marterrich1
marterrich1 January 20th, 2016

My father died right before Christmas. I live with my elderly mother and she is emotionally stuck in the past. I am depressed because I am tired of hearing her negative stories about dead relatives and other people. Some days I don't want to get out of bed. It's harder for me to do my household chores, cook, read or watch TV because she wants to talk all the time. I feel suffocated and want to move on. I don't have friends.

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User Profile: CompassionateGirl90
CompassionateGirl90 February 7th, 2016

@marterrich1 You already seem to know that the negative stories may hold little, if any, truth to them. Just view them as how this person sees them and nothing more... just looking through her lenses for a moment. Thoughts are very much changeable and you can hold on to the images of people as you truly saw them. What is your truth? Go with that. It sounds like you've had a lot to deal with lately and I can understand about not having friends - sometimes it's hard to connect with people when you are going through an especially difficult time. It might feel like others don't understand and sometimes they really don't. If you ever need to chat 1-on-1 with someone, please give me a try. I would love to help and support you.

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January 22nd, 2016

I play bo3.