One difficult life situation I am facing right now is....
The feeling of being alone. It's hard to talk to friends for fear of being considered problematic or troublesome to be around.
@EphemeralNight I get how you feel. Is there anyone youre truly comfortable with?
@EphemeralNight I feel the same way. Im so alone, I have no friends and my life is basically embarrassing. I pray for human contact every day but Im always too scared to initiate it.
I found a girl on an online dating site, and thats the only thing keeping me going right now. Im traveling to Ukraine to meet here in a couple weeks. I cant live by myself anymore, Im sad and alone. But Im sure things will get better. Im always here for anyone who wants to talk. Take care.
My girlfriend and I never see each other because we don't have the same classes and we don't see each other over the weekend so we only really text sometimes. I have this thing where I have to succeed all the time and every little thing seems to stress me out. I just recently "broke up" with some friends
@Turtlegirl0012 just make sure shes the right one for you. I acted a girl for 6 years and didnt leave cause I was too scared. I hope it works out, maybe try having an open conversation and make an effort to see each other more often if you can. Take care.
To just make it through another day. I can't take it anymore. I done something really bad and it costed me a lot of grief, my relationship with my family. I want them to be happy and the only solution I've came up with is for me to die.
@FaithfulPrune9638 I know how you feel. No way to take something back and how can they forgive you or you forgive yourself? Seems impossible. Its not. First thing is accepting your own mistakes, admitting them, and working to be better. That is the best you can do. They may never fully forgive and you cant help that. However, that doesnt mean you cant regain a relationship with someone. Especially family. Give it time and some effort and it will turn out far better than you may realize. Take care of yourself.
@FaithfulPrune9638 It's hard, but we will make it together.
I'm coming into realization of a lot of things that have been wrong in my life, and it's a lot to process at once, and on top of that, I have a job interview soon that I'm placing a lot of importance on.
@EarlyOwl One issue at a time, one day at a time. Good luck with the job interview. Be yourself. Dont over sell. Know what they are really looking for. If you dont get it, there will be a next one. Be confident.
Just got out of a relationship that was never really a relationship kinda. I liked her for 3 years and I finally asked her out. Then... My girlfriend told me that she never really loved me in the first place. So i spent 6 months thinking about the best way to propose to the love of my life, just to find out she didn't love me. Really broke my heart!😞
@SadCucumber15
I have been with my wife for 17 years...Last month she said she has never actually felt a physical attraction towards me. That Im very good looking but she just dont feel that for me. I know it doesnt seem like it now, but 6 months is nothing. This is actually for the best. I am having a terrible time working through this myself so I understand its easier said than done. There is someone out there that wont make you try so hard to be loved and cared for. Its worth moving on and being patient for it to come.
Feeling depressed over past hurts and unable to move on :/
Trying not to self harm
@KelseyMills There is something you cant get out on your own. Some cut to feel, some cut to forget. I wanted to feel something else. Not the emotional pain. Anything but that. Even for a moment. I prefer blunt force rather than cutting. I got pretty good at fixing walls. I strongly recommend a therapist. They can help you get the feelings out and give you other coping mechanisms. Take care of yourself
@PeaceWanted
Thank you x
The Lose of My Mom...
@ModicumDeus It's going to be really hard to get through a day. It's going to be the only thing that you can think about some days. Depending on how close you were, there will be times the grief feels all encompassing. Losing your mother is the hardest thing to go through, but at some point in our lives, we all lose our mothers. What we must do is live on knowing all the things they did for us and finding ways to keep those lessons alive. Remembering even though it will hurt a lot for a while just to do that. We must keep remembering and keep practicing what they preached. At some point, remembering her won't feel like a punch in the gut, but a warm sweater on a rainy day.
Just got married and I feel like I'm not enough....maybe I dont do enough .... or I'm too demanding.
@Admj97 Marriage is a ton of work. Do what you can. Be purposeful in your communication. You dont have to check every box, just know the important ones and prioritize.
noise
Kids in thelibrary they cant be quiet
mostly my dad and depression and frequent sweating trouble sleeping and stress
i been tired uspet and uncomortable for the last three months
i first started my period in october a long time its been 10 months and a longer period because of stress and my birth control shot
it really bothers me when others are talkative and loud its in the library its kids
its kids from africa we dont understand what they are saying
the most challenging situation in my life right now also is money and also having peace and privacy and quiet
its harder to get rid of stress for me and of course i always feel pain its in my spasms and knots and i continue with feeling uncomortable with my stomach and my heart and nightmares and sweating and my soul has been through a lot and of course i am hurt and worse cause scenerio i have to avoid my enemies its a librarian i dont like and a girl i dont like from school and of course the best thingis walking away and ignoring it of course i continue and repeat everything its my own headaches
is not healthy for my health