do you open up easily?
Hello everyone!
So...open up to someone...
* Do you open up easily?
* Did it ever happen to you to open up and regret it later?
* Have you ever felt like you would open up but the fear to be hurt refrained you in doing?
* Are you able to get over your fears and just open up when you feel like the person is worthy?
@BeyondTheInvisible
Do you open up easily? not really...it takes me time
* Did it ever happen to you to open up and regret it later? no
* Have you ever felt like you would open up but the fear to be hurt refrained you in doing? yes
* Are you able to get over your fears and just open up when you feel like the person is worthy? no
@Mellietronx
Hi @Mellietronx!!
So seems like when you feel to open up you do not regret it, like if you ponder it well but when you do it then it is a sure decision. Yup !
Enjoy your friday !
Hello all 
1. I don't really open up easily. I think if I did, I would be in therapy by now. This really holds me back from seeking any help for myself.
2. Yes, I have definietly regretted opening up to someone, as I'm sure many people have. I just don't really get the right support from my family, so I can't share my feelings with them. This makes things really hard because I have such few friends.
3. Haha, I can think of countless times. I am usually ignored or hurt too easily, so I don't tell my feelings those who are close to me. I also care very much what people think of me, and I don't like to feel judged.
4. I don't know. I have one friend who I think is worthy enough to hear my emotions, and I spill a lot to her. However, I can't help but feel like I'm bothering her (it's all in my head) and the more I tell her the more of a freak I feel like.
@heartly
Hello @heartly ! 
Sorry to hear that you do not have the support from those close to you like family members.
Opening up is not easy indeed, it's positive that you have this friend that makes you feel enough at ease for doing.
Hope you will find the balance between your fear to bother her and the postive feedback you have in opening up.
Take care !
If you have proper tools.
@Contrived
Hi @Contrived !!
What kind of tools would make it more easy?
I definitely oopen up too easily and I need to stop that. I think it's me asking for help and people will be symapthethic and help me, but instead, in reality, they smell weakness and just entertain themselves with my mess. So, yes, I regret that. I need to focus on not doing that anymore.
@demonicbunny
Hello @demonicbunny !!
Seems like it has not been a positive experience. sorry for that.
Good thing to do what you feel to do, how we perceive interactions is what makes the difference, at the end.
Wish you in any case to find someone that would make you feel like you can open up and feel good for doing, if that is what you wish too.
Take care !
@BeyondTheInvisible
Regretted saying something. But never regretted opening myslef to certain people (which is very few in numbers) :)
@reservedHouse9567
Hi @reservedHouse9567 !
No regret for opening up ! 
Do you open up easily? NO
Did it ever happen to you to open up and regret it later? NO
Have you ever felt like you would open up but the fear to be hurt refrained you in doing? YES
Are you able to get over your fears and just open up when you feel like the person is worthy? YES
@BeyondTheInvisible
1. i used to, now not anymore
2. yes
3. yes
4. yes, but i need to be jumpstarted
@amiableTurtle9543
Hi @amiableTurtle9543 !!
Thank you for sharing!
Interesting your reply to the point 4
1. Yes and no. I used to be very open, possibly too much so, but I've been hurt a lot and now I'm afraid to take risks like that.
2. Yes. Almost every single time.
3. All the time.
4. Yes, but it takes a long time.
@tluper6491
Hi @tluper6491 !! Glad you joined to share that with us!
Sorry to hear that you've been hurt
I hope this will not happen again
1.No , Not now as learned the hard way
2. Yes , Definately as it went wrong and I felt ashamed to off opened up to wrong people
3. Yes learned when it was too late and I thought it was a good idea at the time
4. Yes , but not share feelings or emotions as some use it against you so hold back on that a little
