do you open up easily?
Hello everyone!
So...open up to someone...
* Do you open up easily?
* Did it ever happen to you to open up and regret it later?
* Have you ever felt like you would open up but the fear to be hurt refrained you in doing?
* Are you able to get over your fears and just open up when you feel like the person is worthy?
1. no
2. yes
3. yes
4. it depends
@TortueDesBois
Hello @TortueDesBois
thanks for sharing
@BeyondTheInvisible
1. Yes
2. yes
3. yes
4. Depends
@Saifelhak74
Hello @Saifelhak74 !
Not easy to open up then!
@BeyondTheInvisible
everything is depends on the person front of you, I'm an open person, friendly and very social.
easy to be my friend maybe from the first time you start feel as you know me from a long time (that's my friends speech)
:)
@Saifelhak74
Yes sure, it depends on that too @Saifelhak74 !
@BeyondTheInvisible
the life is interesting, and deserves to spend it second by second, just find the happiness even from a bitter lemon :)
Never
@JustLolli
Hello, suppose you never open up ?
Thanks for sharing
@BeyondTheInvisible
I never open completely. Maybe on a 25 percentage aspects only
@JustLolli
I hear you !
I understand what you mean @JustLolli 
Yes to all of the questions. I'm fairly open, but there have been times I have regretted being open and have also had times where I thought about telling someone about something and figured the potential consequences of having something private go public wasn't worth it. Generally, I can trust someone although it depends on the person and the information.
@AffyAvo
Nice @AffyAvo !!
Yes, it makes a lot of sense. You explained it well too, thank you !
@BeyondTheInvisible
1. No
2. Yes
3. Yes
4. Yes
@TCo
Hi @TCo !!
Are you fine? thanks for showing up!
Well, schematic replies! I wish you to find a lot of worthy people then !
@BeyondTheInvisible
Haha, I guess I was just following suit. Yeah, it's definitely a struggle to find people I trust enough to open up to. When I do, though, we tend to get really close and have a great friendship :)
@TCo
That's awesome ! Glad to hear that ! 
@BeyondTheInvisible
1. no
2. yes
3. yes
4. no
@BtsEreri
Hi @BtsEreri !
So fear wins over all?
@BeyondTheInvisible
Yeah it does :(
@BtsEreri
I'm sorry for that.
Maybe in time you will find a way to open up a bit, maybe with people that will make you feel more at ease.
It's already great that you shared about it!
Take care!
I'm an onion
The more you get to know me, the more layers you peel away.
@DaveMcGrath
Lol ! So it is something you do slowly, maybe when the person gets your trust?
@BeyondTheInvisible
I guess that depends upon who you are. My boss, they'll never get too much out of me. I don't like being friends with my boss. I'll be respectful and friendly, but I like having that distance in the event I find a better job and decide to leave.
I probably start opening up after a year or two if I am around a person socially on a regular basis.
@DaveMcGrath
Hi !
Sure, makes sense. Not all the interactions are the same !
No, because I am not "normal" by societies standards and after years of both pyshical and emotional bullying, I am very reluctant to open up to anyone. I could be like that for life, but I am me, and I do not care. I like me for me.
@beautifulDreamer64
Hi @beautifulDreamer64
Thanks for sharing, i am glad to hear that you are ok with the way you are ! It's very important.
Sorry for the bad experiences, i wish you to never experience them again.
@beautifulDreamer64 I understand the struggle. I am glad you are here with us :)
@BeyondTheInvisible
1) Open in certain things yes, deep feelings no
2) Yes
3) Yes
4) it depends
@amiablePeace77
Hi @amiablePeace77 !
So it also depends on what opening up is about!
@BeyondTheInvisible
Hi, no Beyond. It is more like fearing to be misunderstood and not having the chance to show correct it or not knowing how. I give you an example, if you are trying to improve skills, like lets say building cabinets, some people might see it as "wanting to compete with others or just trying to be better" whilst the real reason is trying to improve to give the cabinets to those who cannot afford to buy. So based on past experience i just keep more quite then (suffering that people can get such an idea about me). Hope that is understandable.
Definitely not! I have to know you well enough and feel comfortable enough before I start opening myself up or barring my soul to someone.
Hello @LatinNightSky !
Sure, it's up to you to decide just how you're going to talk about yourself and what you're going to say.
Have a nice friday over there!
