Mother knows best
I've always had a turbulent relationship with my mum. There's a long history of reasons as to why I feel the way I do. MOTHER is always right. MOTHER is the women who never believed me when I needed her most.
My biggest bug bear at the moment is she will not let go of the idea of me giving her a key to my flat.
I get a long, LONG list of all the reason SHE feels are important for her to have access to my safe space.
I have no idea how many more times I will have to say no, or if I will eventually cave and regret it. Why can't she let it go.
@loyalpretender
It is hard but for your sanity say NO ....... anyone bothering about access will use it often .... you are grown you do not need to explain to her why just change the subject each time it comes up