What are your suggestions
I’m married with one kid …. My husband doesn’t support me emotionally or even talk to me … he completely ignores me when I talk but plays with our kids and pays for half the bills …. When we go to his family or mine he acts nice in front of them .. when I talk to him about it he runs away from the conversation…. I don’t want to divorce him because we have a kid and my husband used to be extremely nice to me before we had our kid…
Do you know how do I get him to be nice again? I don’t think I can live like this forever ….. I’m even starting to think of cheating on him to feel like I have someone because I feel so alone while I’m married
@sensitiveHuman4340
have you spoke to him about how you feel about this. Laying it all out with no excuse to talk later or ignore it.
I too had a spouse that when in front of others is charming and great but alone nothing. I waited and tried everything I could with mine, it did not change. Life is short to be miserable.
I understand you have a child and you need to weigh your options. while you feel it is good to stay for kid... the child knows or will know. Is this what you would like to show them a marriage is? unhappy and playing a part it affects them. I have seen it