Saving a marriage from divorce
Maligator24
April 12th, 2023
My husband is done with our fighting. I was served divorce papers of out the blue a week and a half ago. I asked to go to counseling but he says no. I don’t want a divorce. Any suggestions for help
toughTiger6481
April 12th, 2023
@Maligator24 First I am sorry your facing this..... but out of the blue ? If your fighting a lot or not even agreed on what your life ..... is going to look like.....
If you want to save it .... first let go of the idea of it is out of the blue when someone files or even talks of filing they have been unhappy for awhile.
Communication ... honest and real is a must and it is painful and also eye opening.....to behavoirs we might not like acknowledge.