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How to make friends?????

Does anyone actually know how to make friends? Ive always been alright with being alone but now that im in my early 20s I can't stand it, worse things is ive never actually had a genuine friend whom i met just on occurance, only friendships from school and convenience. I know people but If I do not engage in conversation first it might as well go nowhere. What do I do, I know im not the most interesting person and am quite/very introverted but I dont think I can live like this anymore, especailly in a country in which people are not likely to come up to someone. Anxiety.

Please someone tell me im not the only one here and its a universal problem

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree June 7th

@optimisticAvocado8964

Your not mistaken,  loneliness is a epidemic. 

I find that it's quite hard to make friends but reaching out for support will eventually bear fruit.

I am a professional and not humorous person so it is difficult to connect with people.. often I meet people who want friends but rapidly distance themselves soon after they meet someone. 🌟

I have felt the same thing. Usually people don't make friends with me and I had 2 - 3 friends they got busy in their own life with their other friend groups and forgot about me.

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@gracefulSunrise8642 That is exactly how every single one of my friendships have ended, I was just simply replaced by other people. Genuinely, I made friends with one girl at the start of my 9th year in school, we did everything togethr, and then in a span of 2 weeks she just started to ignore me. I always feel like the person who fills someone elses voids and then gets chucked out when im no longer needed.


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I have felt the same thing. Usually people don't make friends with me and I had 2 - 3 friends they got busy in their own life with their other friend groups and forgot about me.

User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow June 7th

@optimisticAvocado8964 I can relate to this. You're not alone, and you truly matter 💜 Sending you lots of love 💗💗💗

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