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User Profile: Bitshift1125
Bitshift1125 September 16th, 2025

Hey all,

I'm brand new on here. I'm not 100% sure what I'm looking for, but I know friendship is one of the top points. I've always had a lot of difficulty making and keeping friends, and I've had a hard time with the loneliness lately. For now, if anyone wants to just chat for a while, that would be a huge help.

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow September 17th, 2025

@Bitshift1125 it's okay not to be sure 🥰 You're not alone here, and you truly matter ❤️ I hope you find the support here 🍀 and things start to feel a little lighter 🤍 Sending lots of love your way 🐾💕

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User Profile: Bitshift1125
Bitshift1125 OP September 17th, 2025

Thanks. I really appreciate you saying that.

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow September 17th, 2025

@Bitshift1125 ❤️❤️

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User Profile: SnugglePeach
SnugglePeach September 19th, 2025

Hi, I understand how you feel. I also have trouble making and keeping friends, and I know how lonely that can be. If you’re looking for someone to talk to and possibly connect with, I’d be happy to chat with you.

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User Profile: Bitshift1125
Bitshift1125 OP September 19th, 2025

I'd like to, but I don't actually know how to start a chat on here

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User Profile: SnugglePeach
SnugglePeach September 19th, 2025

I'm actually brand new here too, and from what I looked up just now it seems like peers can't really set up chats on here. If you still want to chat, how would you like to go about chatting?

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User Profile: braindamag3
braindamag3 September 20th, 2025

@SnugglePeach @Bitshift1125

Regular members can only post out in the open, but don't worry there is no judgement here on cups.

There is a Pen Pal section where you can set up a thread between two or more members and it's a great place to get to know each other and make friends.

I am also here because outside of work (1 friend) and now Cups, I have no friends and there are days the loneliness just digs deep and hurts.

Hope you enjoy your stay. Sending lots of hugs your way. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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User Profile: TheAngelSystem01
TheAngelSystem01 September 19th, 2025

@Bitshift1125

Welcome to 7Cups !!  There are many f0rums on here including mental and physical health, it takes a wh1le to get around but there are many listeners ( us included ) and m3mbers on here that are willing to support you through your journey. 

User Profile: helpfulPenguin3132
helpfulPenguin3132 September 19th, 2025

Hey! I’m here to chat. I get the loneliness too. I’ve recently lost a few friends due to starting to set healthy boundaries. I’m feeling the loss of them even though they didn’t respect me.