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Hello! I'm new here but I gotta ask:

User Profile: kopkop176
kopkop176 March 12th

How do you make a frieand? Is there any signs in someone they wont abandon you as soon as you start to get closer? It hase happend to me about 4 times now and I'm really starting to think somthing is wrong whith me but I dunno what...

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow March 12th

@kopkop176 I'm sorry it happened to you 🙁 I want you to know that there's nothing wrong with you 🤍

I can relate, finding genuine friends can tricky at times. I think trying to find friends in places where people share similar intrest, such as hobbies or any other activity, can help you in staying engaged, once the vibe starts to match.

It's also about being open to each other's boundaries and ask whether they prefer to chat often or not, what they're comfortable sharing, and things like that. Getting to slowly know each other helps.

You don't have to rush having friends, not everyone will match your vibes, not everyone would prefer long-term friendships, you deserve friendships where you feel valued and comfortable being yourself ❤️

It's okay if things take time, the right people will come along eventually. Be gentle with yourself 💖 Sending you lots of love and *hugs* 🐾💕

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User Profile: kopkop176
kopkop176 OP March 13th

Thank you so much for the advice. I appreciate it ❤️

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow March 13th

@kopkop176 ❤️❤️

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 March 12th

@kopkop176

getting to know a person takes time and sometimes people whom on surface seemed fine but as more comes out there are differences that would most likely not make a lasting friendship. 

It is not on you just a mismatch perhaps.  When I have met a group of people or tried making friends i found my true friend may not be the ones I assumed at first would be my friend. 

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User Profile: kopkop176
kopkop176 OP March 13th

Thanks for the advice! ❤️

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