I Need Suggestions
Someone whom I have known for few months , is different. He is a 49 year old man with a daughter of 10 yrs who is spectrum of Autism and ADHD. He says he too might be Autistic which is un diaognised. Yesterday his daughter fainted and says she was not conscious for more than a hour, he shared with me that he just felt for 5 mins that he might loose her and post that he was on mechanical mode. We are in different time zones so he texted me and informed me what happened and then he came home, as only one parent could stay so his wife was staying back at hospital. He shared with me in all this , he wanted to Orgasam and he was guilty about it, but he has no one whom he can share this thought with because everyone will disguist him for having such thoughts when his daughter is in hospital. I just listened, did not say anything but how should I interpret all this . As his friend
@helpfulChestnut80 I hope you find some suggestions here 🍀 Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️
@helpfulChestnut80
just listening is good. I doubt he wanted a response.
When I read your post, I was reminded of many movies/ tv shows etc. In a moment of extreme stress and worry people have sought a release. Someone could think of all the movies or shows were someone hooked up in a moment of stress and possible death. even self-soothing may help his anxiety/ stress.
The body excretes hormones and chemicals after a release and can calm and relax a person. Maybe that is an interpretation of the situation.
Thank you, i want to be there for that person as a genuine friend. So i just listened and stayed quiet. Still it was something i couldn't keep to myself and needed to share. So not sure if am correct by sharing someone's deep secret here.
@helpfulChestnut80
it is anonymous you did not break any secret
