I need a friend
I’m a mom of four girls, my boyfriend of two years just dumped me last Saturday with no explanation other than he doesn’t know what he wants. And I have no one to talk to, I’m driving myself mad trying to make sense of everything and I cant. I could really use a hug 😞
@goodTiger4069
even after two years he doesn't know what he wants? that's such a silly excuse to crumble apart a relationship :( im sorry you're going through a tough time it makes sense you're feeling mad and consyantly trying to make sense of what happened... the thing is some people are a little inconsiderate and they don't care about other people's feelings.... you deserved better than whatever excuse he gave you :/
huggiee you tightt🥺🥺
you can talk to me if you want 💕 just share whatever your thinking and however your feeling I got you 🫂
I agree. I told him whoever says they don’t know what they want, doesn’t want what they have. And he’s essentially ghosted me since then. We have kids and he hasn’t even asked about them. I sent Messages to him showing love and compassion and I get callous and cold messages back. Or him making it all about what he’s going through and not once has he asked me if I’m okay. I’m so hurt especially since he knows the past relationship I came From and then he turns around and hurts me more without even a second thought. He was emotionless watching me cry my eyes out and beg him to communicate with me and he said he “can’t” the past two days he has texted me twice and I dont have the energy to even reply because they are such generic messages. If he wants to leave me, he needs to just leave all the way.
Being loving and compassionate towards him is really wonderful but not at the cost of your own dignity and sanity honestly. You make sure to take care of ur self man.
I’m trying. I’ve been going to church and joined a bible study group for single parents so that I’m surrounded with people who understand what I’m going through. It’s hard to unlove him because he’s the first man I let my guard down for and accepted love from since I was physically/emotionally and mentally abused by my ex. I feel traumatized all over again and I worked so hard to crawl out of that place.
It's ok darling you have taken the right steps
I’m trying. It doesn’t feel right. Todays a hard day, it’s like I’m physically ill from the pain.
Hello I am reading through your messages. I am very sorry for whatever you are going through at this moment. Please I will like offer myself to at this moment so that you will not be alone. Let's be friends.
Thank you, I need all the friends and support I can get so I dont isolate myself
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