Searching for a nice person! :)
Hey!
My Name is Robert and I'm searching for a long-term listener. I'm 16 years old and my problems are mainly related to the Friendzone. I'm still sometimes too reserved which has its reason in the past. Anyway, I need somebody to vent, who can maybe even give me some advice and, maybe this is the most important, can calm me down when I'm overreacting or when I'm helpless. But also for some random chats to distract myself or anything. I'm not that organized and I'm not every day online, just saying. The optimum would be a german speaking Listener, but I'm also open for english speaking Listeners. ^^
Looking forward for some Replies and some nice Listeners. :)
@1Yellow7
hello, robert!! i'm sorry you didn't get a reply sooner, but thank you for reaching out!!
it sounds like you're looking for a listener to talk about managing emotions and to support you in your relationships, is that correct? if you'd like, the managing emotions forum is here and the relationship support forum can be found here! if you're comfortable, you're more than welcome to post there as well, so members and listeners of all ages can help :)
if you're keen on talking to someone 1-on-1, then i'd suggest heading over to the browse listeners page! please note, however, that none of the listeners here are allowed to give advice, as this is a rule of 7cups. rather, they can only help give you suggestions and support you on your journey! i hope you'll find that sufficient. if you want a long-term listener, like you've mentioned, then do tick the 'long-term listeners' box! i'd also recommend ticking the one for verified listeners, as those are the ones who've gone through more training and are typically more experienced. if you can't find a german-speaking listener who's active then you can try an english-speaking one; these settings are all on the page! hopefully you find something that can help :)
a last alternative is heading over to the listener classifieds section of this forum! just like how members searching for long-term listeners can post here, long-term listeners who are accepting members can put out adverts of sorts there! hopefully you find someone that can help you:)
best of luck!