Looking back
If you could give your younger self one piece of advice what would it be? I think I’d tell myself to chill out and not stress so much about what other people think. Hindsight really is 20/20 but it’s fun to reflect on what we’ve learned.
@MiaWithLove
That's a fantastic piece of advice! "Chill out and not stress so much about what other people think" is something many of us could have benefited from hearing earlier. It really highlights how much we grow and learn about what truly matters🌷😇
Hmm 🤔since you already say one that I may say it to myself always....then ..
If I could give my younger self one piece of advice, it would be this:
Embrace the learning process, even the mistakes😁
When I was younger, I often focused too much on achieving perfection and feared making errors. I'd tell myself that every stumble is just a stepping stone, a lesson disguised as a setback. The journey of learning, trying new things, and yes, even failing sometimes, is far more valuable and enriching than always getting things right on the first try. It's in those moments of imperfection that real growth happens and resilience is built.
@MiaWithLove
A lesson that i learned over the years is: you can't please everyone and that's totally okay! You don't have to.
For example: you can be someone at school who's struggling with academics and there will be someone who'll pick on you and belittle you. But you can also be "the smart kid" that gets stellar grades and still get picked on because some people are envious and they want to see you fail. The same thing goes for mean/kind people. Both mean and kind people have haters too. But..does that mean there's anything wrong with being kind/smart? No! As long as you don't intentionally hurt other people,when someone bullies you, the problem is in other people, it's not on you. It's NOT your fault.
So what should you do when people are going to bully you even if you are a kind / a smart person? Stay being kind/smart. Don't EVER dumb yourself down or turn into an unkind person just to fit in. Just be yourself and stay kind and one day you'll attract people with the same positive energy as you
@MiaWithLove
Never apologise for who you are 💜🥰
Stand up for yourself.
Grab every opportunity for fun and happiness and love.
Live in the present moment.
Don't waste time worrying!
Believe in yourself more than others are willing to believe in you :) I wish I believed in my capabilities more when i was younger because I have done well for myself. I was too critical and harsh on myself at times.
