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7Cups isn't the same anymore. I'm sorry.

User Profile: SoulwithGoals
SoulwithGoals December 13th, 2025

I know people may get offended, but this is how I feel. The listeners, atleast the ones I try to reach,.. they have good enough reviews alright, but when talking they rarely engage. Just a hi or hello, and they keep quiet. That's not just it.

I don't feel the same community feeling anymore. I try to find good listeners, takes time to get them. Most probably put an online status and go away. This wastes time of the member. After so much time if I somehow try to talk- either they are inexperienced, or don't help much, or worse don't talk properly. As if its some chore. And some of them after connecting, their messages take few minutes or more to come. Even after immediate connection. They don't even inform.

This may sound like a ramble. Maybe it is. But its just 7Cups is not same anymore. Listeners are not as good as they used to be.

I guess this is it.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 14th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals

I'm sorry you feel disconnected 💖

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User Profile: SoulwithGoals
SoulwithGoals OP December 14th, 2025

It's okay. Thanks for replying.

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 14th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals

A pleasure 💜 

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User Profile: Remina
Remina December 14th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals

Hey I understand your frustration. When you are connecting with a listener, you expect them to be professional and responsive. Listeners should not be taking chats if they do not have AT least 30 minutes to give you undivided attention. You can always send me a message and we can try to connect. Sometimes what I do since I work so much is my style sometimes is we "email" back on forth on 7cups and sometimes when the stars align, we have a live chat.

User Profile: SoulwithGoals
SoulwithGoals OP December 15th, 2025

Yes. Thank you for replying.

User Profile: Remina
Remina December 18th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals

You're welcome, you can message me.

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User Profile: Clarity22
Clarity22 December 14th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals

Really Sorry to hear that you had to go through such experience. That must have felt awful.

Yeah I agree this platform has changed in past few months, from a listeners point of view I have also noticed lag/ delay in response. I remember distinctly once I accepted a chat waited for like 30 mins only to get a reply after 8 hours 😅

So yes It hurts when things don't happen as you hoped for but Let's have hope for a Better Time Ahead 😅.

I hope You get the support you deserve soon.

User Profile: SoulwithGoals
SoulwithGoals OP December 15th, 2025

Yes, let's hope. Thank you.

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User Profile: sabeyesofblue3535
sabeyesofblue3535 December 14th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals

Hello, sorry to hear that you have had some bad experiences with some of the listeners here.  I understand your frustration and disappointment.  I hope that your future contacts with listeners will prove to be more positive for you.

User Profile: SoulwithGoals
SoulwithGoals OP December 15th, 2025

Thank you

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User Profile: PsyMeha
PsyMeha December 15th, 2025

Hi. Thanks for sharing your experience. And I’m sorry about what you had to go through. But feel free to reach out to me to discuss any of your concerns. You will be more than welcomed!

User Profile: SoulwithGoals
SoulwithGoals OP December 18th, 2025

Thank you. Appreciate it.

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User Profile: hopefulavory
hopefulavory December 18th, 2025

Hi SoulwithGoals,

Thank you for sharing, I hear the frustration clearly. It’s important to be respectful of your time and to be professional and engaging as a listener. I am a new listener and as a newbie (18 days new) it is significant to hear from members how we impact your experience. That was no ramble at all, you are showing you care, your feeling are valuable and embraced. I hope your future listener connections will be positive. I am open to chatting with and hope consider my offer. If you wish leave a message let me know when is the best time to connect and I will reach out to you. Very sorry, things on 7 Cups has changes so much. Warmest regards and thank you again.

User Profile: peacefulpurple08
peacefulpurple08 December 18th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals I am sorry to hear that Soul. Hopefully, going forward you'll find listeners that you can trust will provide their best active listening skills. 💜

User Profile: gentlemelon85
gentlemelon85 December 18th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals

That's a very hard feeling...I am sorry you had to experience that 

User Profile: lovelyheart14
lovelyheart14 December 18th, 2025

@SoulwithGoals why do you feel this way?