A single mother on the edge
I feel like giving up is the only option left. What was i thinking bringing this kids to this world to make them suffer.😭
@rasberryTangerine9289 I'm so, so sorry you're feeling this way 🙁 Please be gentle with yourself 💖 You don't have to go through this alone... I really hope you find the support you deserve here 🍀 Sending you lots of love and *hugs* ❤️❤️
Agreed <3
🫂Thank you
@raspberryTangerine9289 ❤️❤️
raspberryTangerine9289
Please don't feel that way
Situations are bad, not the people.
Please don't put it on yourself or the kids for whatever you're going through.
We are humans, and we suffer.
Moreover, you've never asked for any of this. So please, be soft on your self, and the kids
I am sure you're going through hardships and it's so painful
You know what's 100x more painful,
Making others feel it by letting the problem win over us.
The worst part is, it will scar them for life. It will never fade either :(
I know that no matter how many words I sum up to say, they won't erase the issue .that doesn't mean you can't find something better here too.
However slow going forward in this may be, please keep hope. There will always be a way no one has to get hurt severely, yet the problems can be looked into.
May you find your happiness soon
Thank you. That was really encouraging
@raspberryTangerine9289
If you feel better. I am glad. If you need support or such,
Feel free to DM me.
Hello, I am a child of a single mother.
Being a single parent is very hard and I am proud of my mother for her hard work. I appreciate what she did even more as an adult.
You are preforming an incredibly amazing feat by raising people. Please don't be so hard on yourself and so pessimistic of the future. Give yourself some grace. I wish you all the best!
I am really trying dear
Thank you.
Hey I'm a daughter of a single mother...so when I saw your post I really wanted to be supportive for you...
So it's not easy at all and I know that first hand. I'm not sugarcoating but you should be proud of you.
What I have noticed so far, during my lived experience is that single mums are usually very independent and rely a lot of themselves. But believe me you don't have to carry everything yourself. Please try to find some support. It will help a lot.
I was born quite a few years ago and there was a lot stigma. I always felt faulty or missing something.
Sorry I was having problems typing my message. I was saying PLS surround yourself with positive ppl. My mum had a lot of ppl shaming her...and again I felt it was my fault.
Personally I wouldn't go the same route, but it's not a judgement. It's because I saw how hard it is.
So PLS try to find support for you and your children 🐻💚🌈
I will be around. I like this space. I like helping others. I have a lot of craps going on, but I enjoy supporting others...at least I add some value to this world.
I hope it helped 💚💚🐻🌟✨
I guess that's what my elder daughter is feeling.
Thank you🫂
I hope this finds you in better spirits! If you need someone to talk to feel free to send a direct message! Hoping you had your little bundles of joy are relaxing watching television
Thank you. 😊
You’re more than welcome
@raspberryTangerine9289 I'm so sorry to hear you are going through such tough times. I want you to know you are very strong and brave to have to deal with your problems up till now. I know you can do it, sometime crash outs are normal and help you feel better in fact. I am sure you are great mother and your child is happy to have you as their mother
Hey, it’s okay. I know that the situation must be very difficult for you, but it can get better. Inshallah it will. I can’t imagine being a single mother, and I admire you for your choice. 💛
We are here for you, please don’t go so hard on yourself. 🫂
Thank you🫂
