Confused
I am 40 married and I have two kids.
My husband cheats seldomly with other girls by saving their pictures in his phone and talking to them on phone .
Saying to me that he has no intention to marry anyone . Its just his way of killing time and spend some quality time..
I am just confused isn't it a form of cheating?
I am Muslim and totally dependent on my husband financially.
Needs supportive friends and some platonic relationships.
@Rabi2929
Hello. Your husband should NOT be speaking to other women. He may not be cheating physically, but with his mind he is. Try to talk to your husband and tell him how you feel, if he doesn't change, perhaps you should take some necessary steps.
@Rabi2929... Hey I have friends of Male and female But if he is killing time with all these girls And he's not really talking to you then something's wrong
Take it easy and Pray Allah SWT for guidence and help.
Change your out look , be positive and create an enviornment at home to divert his intrest and attention towards you. You just ignore his so called cheating without complaining or talking about it and presenting yourself as he need you to be. More complaint or more irritating can create more distance so try your self to more intrested in you by changing your outlook, house enviornment, presentations of meals, your Su missing and loving and helping attitude. Ou will have to what is missing in you so he connect with others. Imposing will never help. Changing ourselves slowly may help bcz men by nature is more romantic than women so use this weakness. Hooe it will change your husband.
Islam also teaches how to face and resolves these kinds of situations, best of luck, TrustcAllahvswt.
Best of luck
JazakAllAh
@Rabi2929 in my personal opinion yes it's cheating, saving photos of other woman is very disrespectful to a marriage