Confused
I m just tired of everything...everything is just too much
People be like we r always there and then just go...idk if I am the problem.. or maybe i m not enough..but why always
Maybe i should not just expect people be there bcz all r going through something...
But when I ask what happened they can tell me if they consider me their friend or just say that I want to be alone for sometime
Or i should be able to guess? I m bad at that too tho
I m just tired of life even if I do everything I m still just with nothing either people die or leave bcz of me....
Maybe being alone is better..idk!!
I can't even handle my emotions.. either I m too numb or feel too much
Either I m anxiously attached or avoidant attached...
I m just too much....
I feel like I don't deserve happiness or anything good
I don't deserve anything....
@cutegrapes I can relate, it can feel like no one really cares sometimes, but I want you to know that you're not the problem. You're enough just as you are. I'm really glad that you're here, and opening up, instead of bottling things inside.
You absolutely deserve to be heard and treated with love and kindness. Be gentle with yourself. You truly matter. We're all here for you, whenever you need a space to feel heard ❤️ I'm sending you lots of love and *hugs* 🐾💕
@fossilfellow thank you so muchh🥹💓 hugs back🫂
@cutegrapes ❤️❤️
@cutegrapes
I get you and I feel the same way and everyone tells you its going to be ok or you'll get through it but nothing ever change. I feel like i have nobody to help me work through my problems or even just talk. Its eather their busy with work or busy with something else and I just stand there like "do i not exist or do i not have feelings that matter too." Im always there for other people just hoping someone with be there for me but they never are.
I understand how you must feel, especially when you are the type to show up for people only to be ignored when in need. I am available to help you through whatever you are bothered about. You can talk to me. Let's build a conversation. All you need is to dedicate your time to it because I am dedicated to It, it is the reason I signed up here. To change and transform positively. However tired you feel, say Hello and I respond.
@emotionalship hugs🫂 and ik it's really hard.. and u can talk to me if u ever want to share with someone!!💓
@cutegrapes
I would love to get tk know ow more about you and I would like to chat with you about some of the things in my life.
@emotionalShip4783
I would love that tooo !!
Hru ? Let's start from here i g
@cutegrapes
Im good sorry I couldn't reply I just got home from a concert.
@emotionalShip4783 glad to hear ...it's ok don't be sryy! That's greatt!!! How was the concert ?
@cutegrapes
It went great i got a solo and so did my friend. I was at the concert place from like 8 am to like 9 pm.
@emotionalShip4783
That's really amazing!!!!!!
@cutegrapes
Ya I was really happy about it because flutes dont get a lot of solos but I did so now I get to move on to bigger concerts.
@emotionalShip4783
Wowww that's really so amazing..so proud of u !!!!!.... Yayyyyyy gl for thattt
@cutegrapes
Thank you it was a little disappointing when everyone else got flowers and stuff and I got nothing besides a "good job but you could do better" from my family.
@emotionalShip i m sorry for that ..but u did amazing as u told me u got the opportunity to perform solo which was a really big thing and that was amazing 💓
Virtual flowers 🌺 from your friend!!!!!!
@cutegrapes
Thank you so much i really appreciate it.
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Trust me you are just like me I also don't know how to handle myself how to feel
@goodZebra8278 i m sry it's really hard🫂
You spoke my heart man💔
@DarkRider 😔🫂
Expressing yourself is the right thing to do. Now you need to take it a step at a time to get the clarity you need to understand your emotions and how you feel. Reply to my message and let's start from a simple conversation.
@rejuvenated01 thank you so muchh!!!
Dont say like that...u deserve love ,support and good life too... Don't underestimate urself... Ur best🌺
@brightDay9737 thank you so muchh🥹💓
@cutegrapes I’m really sorry you’re feeling like this. It sounds like you’re just… exhausted from caring so much and still feeling left behind. And honestly, that doesn’t make you “too much” — it means you have a big heart that keeps getting tired.
People leaving or going quiet doesn’t automatically mean you’re the problem. Sometimes people just don’t know how to communicate their own struggles, and unfortunately that hurts the people who care about them most. Wanting someone to simply say “I need space” is not asking for too much — that’s basic kindness.
You’re not wrong for feeling confused about your emotions either. Feeling everything too deeply one moment and nothing the next usually means you’ve been overwhelmed for a long time, not that you’re broken.
And please hear this: you don’t become undeserving of happiness just because you’re struggling right now. Pain can make your mind say harsh things about yourself, but those thoughts aren’t facts.
You’re not too much. You’re just tired of holding everything alone.
I’m here with you — and you don’t have to figure everything out all at once. 💛
With lots of love Lai...
@WithLoveLai thank you so much for your kind wordsss 🥹💓🫂 means a lot
It’s understandable that you feel this way and I’m sorry that you’re experiencing so much. It sounds so difficult, wanting the support you need while also not wanting to be perceived as burden for doing so. I also don’t know about what other people are thinking, but you should not feel obliged to read their minds. As humans, we need communication. And if you’ve been communicating your needs while they’ve been ignoring it, then the best one can do is figure out how to tend to your own needs or find others who’s willing to listen. You’re worthy for support and care, which is why you should continue to voice your needs here! We might not be able to see each other face to face, but you will continue to receive endless encouragement from people who truly want the best for you <3
@forcefulJet3274 thank you so muchh.. and u r right!!! 🥹💓🫂
Even I go through same thing …. When people need me I’m always there for them I help them in all possible ways but when I need them … they are just too busy or not available … why ? I mean … am I that bad of I don’t deserve happiness…? I put 100% efforts to make them happy n at the end I don’t get 1% in return… 😟
@HeartlnClouds19 u are not bad.. and u deserve everything I m sorry.... And u deserve the same efforts 💓🫂
@HeartlnClouds19 u are not bad.. and u deserve everything I m sorry.... And u deserve the same efforts 💓🫂
