Feeling really alone in life, with no friends at all
I have no friends. It's so lonely at times. I have no-one i can talk to, literally not even a single person. I am always struggling to make friendships, or find actual sane, like-minded people who i can vibe with. It's like when your life is going into a downward spiral, but at least you have people around you can share it all with, to make it go away.
I haven't always been like this, used to be a chatty person, but something in me changed as i came into contact with the judgemental side of the society. I stopped being chatty, i started being more silent. And since then, i have been having a hard time reconnecting with people. I gave up all ways of connecting through any thing online as well. It has its pros too, but the loneliness is painful.
Feeling everyday, that there is no one who would understand you the way you are. The need to talk, but not having anyone around, it's really sad.
Wish i had friends.
Finding yourself is easier when you have understanding, sympathetic people by your side, really. :)
@someonewhoknowsnothing11 I hear you ❤ being alone is horrible. I don't have family or friends either🙁 except for here on 7cups 🙂 this site has been a lifeline for me, I hope it brings comfort to you too ❤ hugs you tightly, you will always have us here ❤❤
Hi, I also feel the same way when I stumble across that judgemental side of society. This description definitely hit me. Though I don't have the energy for a long-terms friend right now, but I might often comment on ur post
@someonewhoknowsnothing11
I totally understand where you’re coming from. Life is difficult as it is but without friends or anyone to talk to or get support from makes it even more harder. I’ve been there and am still there as I’ve been living my entire life all alone just like you.
Now you have someone to talk to and get support from bc I’m here for you. If you need to talk about anything, please reach out to me.
Friendly hugs with support and all the ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you want :)
Thanks so muchhh. Warm hugss back your wayyy 🤗 💜🫂
@someonewhoknowsnothing11 I've been going through that for years now after my mom died everything changed. Hang in there!!!
I'm sorry to hear that, may her soul rip..
And thanks a lot man, appreciate your support. 💜🫂
I know how difficult it all is.
I feel the same way in many circumstances.
But you have to believe there will be better days and new friends will come into your life.
@someonewhoknowsnothing11 I hear you, and I feel the depth of what you're going through. Loneliness can weigh so heavily, especially when you’re longing for connection but feel surrounded by walls instead of open doors.
I’ve been there too, in a place where I felt misunderstood, judged, and ultimately disconnected from others. It’s like the world becomes a quieter place, but not in a peaceful way more like an isolating silence.
What helped me begin to find light in those moments was acknowledging that loneliness doesn’t define who I am, but rather the season I’m in. I started small, reaching out in safe, quiet ways like opening up through writing. I put my thoughts and fears into words, and it became a way to connect, not only with myself but also with others who felt the same.
It’s one of the reasons I wrote The Silence. I wanted to create something for people who are struggling to find their voice, their confidence, and the strength to reconnect with life. This book isn’t just about overcoming fear or anxiety. It’s about finding hope and practical steps to move forward, even when it feels impossible.
If you’re ready to take that first small step, I encourage you to check it out here: Get The Silence. It’s currently available at a discounted price of $7.50, because I know how important it is to have tools within reach when you need them most.
And remember, even when it feels like no one understands, you’re never truly alone. There are people out there who want to hear your story...Sometimes it just starts with sharing it, like you did here. That’s a brave first step.
I think most could relate to what you’re experiencing, I know I could. It’s easier when you have like minded people to take your mind off the traumatic events that you have recently or currently enduring. I learned isolating sometimes is not always good it could send you into a deep depression with racing thoughts that becomes uncontrollable. I’m experiencing a bad break up after 12 years and I cry so much and feel lost that I have to make myself continue my ADLs and I have no one I could talk to because my friends were his family. We will get through this
Yes, we will. And yeah it's really lonely at such time. Warm hugs 🫂 💜
@someonewhoknowsnothing11 going through same thing, wishing we find good people in real life
Hopefully 🤞💜
Like you literally pulled the words out of my head and it's exactly how I feel I'm grateful and extremely lucky to have my father but when that's not the case anymore that is exactly the boat I'll be in in a terrifies me it terrifies me like more than I could ever explain
😔we can only hope, hope is what lingers when all fades away
@someonewhoknowsnothing11 You are not alone and most of the world is alone. I have learned people pay for friends.