Get it off your chest
Id like to ask: What's hurting you today? List 3 - 5 points maybe and feel lighter ?
Writing for me is releasing pain... when I have expressed, a weight is lifted off my chest. It always helps.
So what's hurting me today?
That the journey might always feel alone. Sure there are voids people fill over the way but then new pain areas arise. And you have to sit with it by yourself till you find relief through another opening. And since that's life, it just makes sense to factor this inevitable loneliness in one's vision of life. To be realistic.
That being to able to love the opposite gender in context of a partnership might entail way more expansion of the heart that what I'm able to offer at present. It might mean sacrificing my own needs at times. Yes I am capable of giving love but how much I can't say. And the thought itself is making me feel a little out of my comfort zone.
That time is running out. And I really want to do a few things in the next two years but the obstacles are never ending. I trust my path. I wish there will be victory. But the race against time..... cant be denied.
@Creamyyy
I'm angry with a situation I can't change, I'm being blamed, even though they know they are lying 🥺💜💕
Oh ya that must hurt, bringing in the fighting instincts. I always find that kind of stuff as unnecessary troubles created by people.... and you have no choice but to take it in your stride and keep going.... and questioning the fairness of it all meanwhile.... am I getting this right? Im on your side as your support against them 💛🤗
@Amanda84
@Creamyyy
You are getting it right.
What the other person is saying, is lies, and they know it, it's so draining when they just continue to spread their lies 💜
Most hurting today
Me 76 and my wife 71 both are very sick and going through very toughest toons as our Elder married son with whom we spend more then 30years and due some misunderstanding he did connected with us so we were niw living with his wife and kidds. He has very limited resources and some difference between them so She punish me and my wife, less meal, some time left overs with bitter talk whole day. She pretend differently in front of her husband but inside she is taking some revenges to disturb her husband, although our son tried to look after us well but he avoid confrontation with his wife to save his famy.
We die everyday
Im so sorry. This must hurt so deeply. Not very uncommon though, sadly Ive seen household dynamics change after marriage of children quite often, with the spouses imposing their vision of running the family. A shared vision where everyone feels valued isn't easy to achieve.
Older people definitely deserve greater compassion... but they also bring their wisdom with them. Cooperation is key. I hope the peace within you overtakes the sting of the situation. My prayers & love for you and your family 💛✨️
@considerateChestnut4179